We have been dating for 2 years and now his baby mama is pregnant and due in december with his child. She got pregnant on purpose just to intrap him again. All she wants to do is make him feel bad and force feed his family down his throat. All she has done is cause problems for the both of us with outrageous behavior. Believe me she is crazy! It takes all I got to restrain from knocking her out! I really know that deep down he knows it won't work out with her and he is fooling himself if he thinks their relationship will work. Now he is spending time with her and seeing me when he can. No I don't agree with what is happening but we have some kind of connection that can't stop us from seeing eachother. But I don't think if he was really trying to work it out with his family he would still talk to me. Maybe I'm just crazy!
2006-11-15 02:33:40 · 23 answers · asked by Carrie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wake up honey. If he wanted to be with you, he would have NEVER gotten his soon to be baby mama pregnant....he would have NEVER cheated on you.
Looks to me like you're willing to settle for left overs and sloppy seconds. You think you have problems now, just wait until that baby is born.
Don't you think you deserve better? Girl, kick him to the curb and move on with your life. You don't need a looser like him in your corner. Better to loose 2 years than 10 or 15 years in a bad relationship that's never going to go anywhere.
He's made his decision. He got another woman pregnant and is spending more time with her. Now it's your turn to make a decision. Cut him loose and move on girl!!
2006-11-15 02:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are crazy and you have no self respect. This man will now have two children by another woman. What does that tell you? All you can think about is what you want? Hello! He is the father of two children and they are the only innocent people involved in this mess. His primary responsibilities are to them - not you.
And how did she "entrap" him anyway? Did she drug him and drag him to her bed? Probably not. He went willingly. Sounds to me like he's already part of a family and you're just a squeeze he's seeing on the side. I'm not letting him off for cheating, but you are just as guilty.
And why would you want a guy who doesn't do right be his kids? If he neglected his responsibilities as a father with the children he produced with the other woman, what makes you think he wouldn't do the same with you if you have children with him?
You need to step back and encourage him to be a responsible father. Have some self respect and find yourself a man who isn't attached to someone else.
2006-11-15 02:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you guys have been together for 2 years and she's due in December doesn't that mean he cheated on you with her?! In any rate I would leave him. Speaking from personal expeience, once a kid is involved it's not going to get any better. And if she is the beatch you say she is, and I'm not doubting that, it's going to be really hard when he has to blow you off to go to her beck and call. and don't forget about the child support. She will call him for every little thing and that's going to come in between you and your man. If you stay be for warned. I tried staying but he had too many problems that our life could never happen. He had four different baby mama drama, I would never be able to have a kid with him. Hope this helps and good luck
2006-11-15 02:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carrie i am going through the same exact thing and u know what it is killing me....but i feel as though i have had enough of the drama once and for all.Dont settle for less and be his fool..if he did it once he will do it again to you and unless you want to continue to be his fool find someone else that has respect for you and wont cheat on you...he is not the only man in the world.I understand you feel that u guys have some type of connection but if there was a real connection there wouldnt be a baby on the way from another woman.....ya feel me
2006-11-15 02:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got pregnant to trap him again? Did she do this all by herself? Where exactly was he when she conceived? One might suspect he wasn't down the hall!
Honey, don't you have more self-respect than to stay with a man who cheats on you? How many children has this man fathered with other women? You deserve better than this kind of treatment. There is a man out there that will love you and only you. Find him.
Show this dude the door and get on with your life.
2006-11-15 02:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by silver2sea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see..
You've been dating this dude for 2 years (or 24 months)
He got this other girl pregnant, and she's due in December
That means that he got her pregnant sometime in March, 8 months ago...
Which means that he cheated on you at least once 1 year and 4 months into your relationship...
And you're mad at HER and not YOUR CHEATING BOYFRIEND
Please explain?
Maybe you should dump this guy, and let him go take care of the baby that he brought into the world due to his irresponsibility and inabillity to keep his thing in his pants!!!
2006-11-15 02:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating for two years, and she is 7 months pregnant? Do some math and you will see that if he can't be faithful while only dating you know when the marriage hits he won't make it, let him try with her, you go find a REAL man.
2006-11-15 02:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your dating a guy that has another girlfriend and this girl is pregnant with his child but you still see him?My question is: What part of your being played don't you understand?He has someone else,accept it and move on.Don't get yourself wrapped up in there mess anymore.Time to stop being the fool.
2006-11-15 02:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woa! That's sound's like a lot of drama But that's for him to decide but if you dont want to be in between then forget and let him go! But if y'all are truly in love then find a way to back her off let her no you might be the baby mama but he's mine!
2006-11-15 02:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by benita j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out. playing the 'other girl' to a guy who can't make up his mind between you and some crazy chick will do you nothing but harm. and how does he have a baby mama who is about to have her kid if you guys have been together for 2 years........?
2006-11-15 02:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋