from a physical standpoint women are extremely interesting to a guy. you look at their pretty face and you wonder more about them. but as you get older you start to realize they aren't as exciting as you once imagined, you start to see them as naggers and pains and "not in the moods because i am tired or have a headaches". do other guys agree with this change in perception that occurs as a guy gets older?
2006-11-15 02:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I agree there is a shift in perception. This is due to your own maturity and because you've realized that hot women are people too. Show me a person that doesn't have baggage or issues and I'll show you a pig that can fly. In our youth we imagine that since they look perfect on the outside everything else about them must be perfect too. It just isn't true.
2006-11-15 02:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!!! that hurts, we are givers of Life and this is what u think of US? hmmm, maybe u need to see a psychologist? We are beautiful creatures and we are not all naggers all the time, sometimes we are just having a BAD DAY, everyone has them. Be kind and admire US;)
2006-11-15 02:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try to see that women are built differently from men.yes there is the nagging and the tiredness.if you take a different approach to these things your life will be blissful and the sex will be great.Do not dwell too much on her whining look at ways to make her life easier.Run her bath,cook once awhile.help her undress when she comes home,take her shoes and socks off her feet.Sometimes these simple things are the hardest to do when you are tired.buy a body massager and give her a good massage before she goes to sleep and your reward will be great when she wakes up.Hmmm,I know of what i speak.
2006-11-15 02:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 12 girls just drove me mad. All I wanted was to touch their skin and wondered what it'd be like to kiss them.
At 15 I noticed all the girls my age were mentally challenged by all the attention girl-looking guys gave them. "His perm is out of this world!" "He's so cute!" (Yeah, he looks like a girl, all that soft skin and dollied up hair. But most the guys young girls were interested in sounded like a squeaky girl one moment and a coughing horse the next.)
At 18 I figured that when I was 16 most the young gals were already being saddle broken by guys far older than them, now I'm at that age and gals my age are just plain nuts to daffy... And all the little 15-16 year olds need to leave me alone. I wanted none of that!
At 23 I started to settle down a bit and when I coached a women's softball team and managed a coed volleyball team, I noticed all the single chicks were looking for Mr. Right and always ended up with Mr. Wrong. They went after looks and looks alone while substance wasn't yet in their vocabulary.
Physically though, they still drove me insane. The candy store was open and being in the position I was in... I held firm to not fraternizing with the players. Maybe that's why they wanted to jump my bones so bad. The desires they had were almost slutty, but I strutted like a rooster but made sure they thought I wasn't interested. Charm man, that's what oozed through my bones and I wasn't going to share!
Like a spider making a web, I made a great pad and no women I ever met was going to trap me like they did with so many of my friends.
At 25 I married. Life as we all know it ended. But it grew into something far greater when we started making a family.
Guess it was my destiny to be a father of daughters... Knowing what I knew about females, being a father to educate them better than most was going to be my signature trademark.
To this day it still is.
However, similar to how you view women, I too upon growing a few years see a similar image when seeing many different women in every day life.
It's like the sea parting. Some women adore who they are as well as others around them, others seemed smitten with frowns and seem to carry loads of nasty old baggage from years of being used and not being happy.
The young hussy of yester-year has aged and has the bitterness to prove it.
Going on 44-yrs-old (and after a divorce from a non-appreciative woman who envied my charm to the point of being jealous of me), I see the kinder, sweeter, more gentle ladies having fewer frowns and still walking pretty with a zip in their step. It's infectious to see them face each day with such a bright outlook, and watching that is far more appealing than watching the ones who've stumbled or trashed other peoples lives.
Men aren't much different in some cases. But the aging, tarnished, soon to be old hag/nag-type ladies still focus on the same breed of loser men who they blame for putting them into the positions they literally chased after them for in the first place.
Loudly, loudly they rant about how someone they loved screwed them over. The attitude, the rage, the frustrations... All seem to rise to the surface out of nowhere. If they could only stand in the corner and see that they themselves walked to that corner and lived their life looking at how two walls meet, instead of turning around and looking out to see how vast life really is if they didn't focus on themselves and enjoyed people for who they are, and not cast those aside who could have made their life more caring and wonderful... If only they liked themselves more and envied others less...
Those that have good balance in doing that, being physically beautiful of not, ooze with the charm and grace that makes young men and old men alike... Appreciate women and give men hope that one day we can be a tiny part of the reason of why they look so beautiful.
2006-11-15 03:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think like that , but I do look at them and think how thankful I am that I married the woman I did.
2006-11-15 02:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same goes for women,That's called growing up...
2006-11-15 02:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man i'm still a young buck and I still love strange women
2006-11-15 02:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. i don't feel that way. sounds like you've had a bad relationship. maybe your wife is in a bad relationship now.
2006-11-15 02:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by gary c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and wonder why wife not in mood-mr romance
2006-11-15 02:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never...the intrigue never dies
2006-11-15 02:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋