To a guy that you are not in love with, but he is your babys father? TO the guy that treatend you cause you did not tell him about a past relationship before you started dating. How do I let him go? What do I do about my unborn child? He said if I left him, he would not have anything to do with it. What do I do?
2006-11-15 02:19:00 · 9 answers · asked by RoByN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for one if there is DNA proof that he is the father of the child, child support steps in and he cant have "nothing to do with it". Secondly if hes already threatened you and you dont love him, then leave him. Its not worth the emotional breakdown.
2006-11-15 02:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by fairiemage99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop sleeping with him. 2 It's none of his business what you did in your past relationship. 3.How do you let him go? Easy tell him you are done and walk out. 4. If you even have to ask what to do with your unborn child, do the child a favor and put the child up for adoption. The child needs love, affection and a stable home with parents that care about the child. It sounds like you are not ready to become a stable loving parent. As for him don't expect any child support from him if he is calling the child IT!
2006-11-15 02:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by wyleyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your heart help you decide. Don't get married because you are pregnant, it won't work out. If someone really loves you, they would be willing to accept anything about you and not worry or even want to know about your past. If you don't want the baby you can always give it up for adoption, but then you would probably regret it in the future. Please pray about this situation and GOD will help you decide what to do. Just be honest with everyones and remember let your heart be your guide.
2006-11-15 02:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Demetria S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Hit him with child support and find a guy that will treat you and your baby as you deserve. Here's a start on how to let him go...Just remind yourself that you do not want his 'personality' to be passed on to your child and there's a good guy out there just waiting to take care of the both of you. You just need to find him.
He has no choice, he will be involved with your child forever. That's the price of "playing". There's plenty of services out there that will make sure you get what you need (from him or the state)to take care of your baby.
2006-11-15 02:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it will difficult financially the best thing that you can do for yourself and the child is make sure that he has no part in your life. Someone who threatens you is not fit to be a father.
Explain to him that you are not in love with him and do not want him in your life. He says that he would have nothing to do with the child, and you can only hope that he sticks to that.
But please, do not tell him this alone. If he has threatened you you can not be sure that he wouldn't harm you if he was upset. Make sure that you tell him with someone present who can protect you.
2006-11-15 02:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all about you and your soon to be newborn. I'm sorry you fell in love with such a loser who would hurt you in such way. Focus on you at this time, build up your strength with your friends and family. Find the support you need at this difficult time, don't even worry about him, he's just not worth it. There are beautiful men out there that won't treat you like this.
2006-11-15 02:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him why would you have a baby with him? As a soon to be mother, think of your child.
Sacrifices sometimes have to be made.
If your happy, your baby will be happy. You unborn child has a right to his father, please keep that in mind.
Best of Luck.
2006-11-15 02:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me , I have been in an abusive relationship with my kids trapped in the middle of everything. .....
if he is threatening you leave him now and NEVER look back. You and the baby dont need this jerk. Especially since you dont even love him.
i wish i had left my ex long before i did.
good luck
2006-11-15 02:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that even thought your baby needs a father you can't stay with him because he isn't the "kind" of father your baby needs and he's not the kind of man you need to be with right now. hope that helps!
2006-11-15 02:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋