After having a lot of failed relationships i would be v interested 2 know the answer to this. How does a guy know if he's found the right girl and what sort of girl would she be? Ive tried being distant and being 'clingy' but nothings seemed to work.
2006-11-15 02:10:06 · 20 answers · asked by fire_breather89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for me, i'm looking for:
physically: her eyes and her smiles
personality: her love of life, compasionate, funny, kind, know what's right from wrong. out going. great to be around
it's really up to you, what makes you happy. pursuing a girl doesn't work for me. when you're not looking, that's when they show up.
2006-11-15 02:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to my guy, he wants someone who is a lady in the streets and a **** in his bed. That's why we get along so great, but of course I do have a brain and know how to use it, I'm also a tomboy and can play sports with him. I'm quite versatile and can take / give a joke. Clingy doesn't work unless the guy says that's what he likes, most times he is lying though. And being distant shows that you are not that interested in him personally. You have to find a happy-medium.
2006-11-15 02:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK AS AN EXPIRENCED GUY IN RELATION I GIVE THIS ANSWER
we always say that we do not care about the look we onloy care about what inside but the most important in this place that what we called (chemistry) it is somthing no body can explain wat it is a spark that get your soul in fire if you get into a relation with a girl and you start to feel pain inside you you dnt know how to explain it and you keep thinking of her and want t ocall her all the day and you felt that you want her to be infron of you all the day thats the girl you want but for a realtion without love you can accept by a girle that have these charachteristics she should be careing for your feeling knowing what you want from her cleaver and funny in the same time you should see what in her heart without asking her and you should know her berthday they much like that specially when you call them to say happybirthday and most importent to know sh is a human being and she just like you so treat her as you treat your self and always give her the big part in your hert somtimes friends be better than brothers and let her decide where are you going in the relation that way you will not be in blame if the place was bad so always be down to earth with hr and be honest and talk too much let her talk more than you and always be a lestiner and always provide your help in everything you think she need help in and do not talk about your family a lot cause she dosent care about your family she care about you but no problem if you ask her to help you in some issues she would like to know that she could offer help some times and be simple do not take it to seriously but if you go to a date with her always make her proud of you let he feel that she choosen the right guy and always till her how beautiful she is and how much sh is good in choosen the dress to wear
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2006-11-15 02:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by El_Jee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We look for someone that we're attracted to, first physically then in terms of personality. Then if after a while it seems we're a good aul match and compadible and happy with one another you're set.
If at any stage this isn't the case you break it off. That's how it works. You just haven't found the right person. Keep looking and don't overthink it so much. Don't change who you are.
2006-11-15 02:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a combination of both at the right time. Friendship. I've always had a thing for women with long legs and I married someone with short legs. We knew each other for quite some time and after a while (6 years) we got married. I still don't know if she was the right one for me but we've been married for 8.5 years now and our marrage is better than most people who are head over heals for each other. I think our marrage, unlike most is based on Friendship Love and not Passionate Love.
2006-11-15 02:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pert breasts
full bottom
long legs
long hair
pretty
no brain and legs a kimbo.
seriously, something in common with all men they think with the wee brain first. I know I'm one. After the real, no the other brain gets hold, your guess is as good any. I still can't find the right woman and I've had some right disasters.
2006-11-15 02:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by willygromit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look for the person inside the girl not the one on the outside
2006-11-15 02:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by colin050659 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look blokes eigther really like a girl or dont, i kno i am 1! If he dont really like you he wont drop 2 many hints but he may jus be using ya!!! but we are pretty transparent if a bloke really like you ur kno!!! example if you say u like pink roses and u get
A) roses - He likes you but could be checking out other ppl
B) pink roses - Its love he mad bout ya
C) flowers - he cares jus not nearly enuff
D) nothink - he probably had a bet wiv his mates he could pull ya
We wont pay attention to detail for any 1 r u wiv me
2006-11-15 02:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by ross s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, my opinion is,just be yourself. That's how I'd like you to be. But, that's only MY opinion- others may(and probably will) say something different. I really look at who the girl is, not how the girl is. If you'd like at least a friend, try im1friend@yahoo.com OR 918 335 2955 And take care of yourself,'cause I care.
2006-11-15 02:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you just know when you've found the person your going to spend the rest of your life with its weird you have a soul partner in this world.there is someone special out there for you. so dont worry,.
2006-11-15 02:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋