it been 2months i am still calling, he ignors i know its over, but cant admit it feel as tho am going to be alone all my life crying for him, as his the one. what should i do?
2006-11-15 02:09:16 · 8 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, it takes time and if this was your first love... u never forget but time can help u process it to remember the fun and leave behind the troubles.
Girl u got to stop calling him. U've had the good cry, now dust off your buns and get moving even if u don't want too. If u have let yourself go, jump back into life. Never let any man or person come into your life and you give up who u are!
Do something nice for others. Say find a charity in which to devote some of that time to doing wonderful things for your community. You may find in getting out and doing a service for less fortune that may need someone to spend time with elderly. They provide support like extended Grandparents to soothe that ache.
Life is too short to sit on the sidelines. Start taking the time for soothing, long baths and pampering your body. Maybe start a walking or exercise program. Exercises and knitting are positive endorphins. Take that depression, stress away.
If you ever went to a children's hospital and see these kids and families fighting to stay alive... you would instantly realize... gosh how dumb I'm wasting my wonderful health and life on a bum. Go out and make yourself interact with the human race again. And don't wrap yourself into one person. Balance... it will come and so too will the right person for you.
2006-11-15 02:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned in the past that meeting and dating new people always help get your mind off of the old guy. When you do this try to focus on your new life and new things a head. Don't compare the new guys to the other ones because you will always find things wrong and go back to your old ways. Stop calling the old guy. Get with friends and family get your mind moving in other directions. Focus on school, work, etc. God bless you and stay positive and take it slow don't move into another relationship quickly. Have fun enjoy and get to know people. Then the healing begins.
2006-11-15 10:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling! Get out and meet more guys. There is someone better out there for you. The main thing is to stay busy and stop thinking about him. As time goes on, you will eventually forget the loser. Good luck.
2006-11-15 10:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out and spend time with others. I remember my first and when I was sad about it I talked with a friend. Friends are always there for you and will listen to your problems, sometimes they even have some good advice for you. Talking about it definately helped me. It let me get my emotions out. If you don't feel like talking about it then try something creative like writing poems or drawing to get the emotions out.
2006-11-15 10:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by stubergal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get over with in time but while you are in that process you need to go out and have fun go to club and have fun it works for most of the people that i gave this advice to and try not to think about what he is doing and do not at any time let yourself talk about him to other people while you are out having funn
2006-11-15 10:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get over it just leave the boy alone and move on the pain will still be there. My first love told me after 5 years he loves me still and then a few things happened.......... but ya you will never get over it just leave him alone
2006-11-15 10:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by iam_2wild_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and find a new guy to take up your time or just hang with friends, if you like!! Just find something to fill the gap!!
2006-11-15 10:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to occupy your time. Like an English class.
2006-11-15 10:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋