Ladies - if your husband or boyfriend asked you to have plastic surgery, would you agree to do it? Or would you be insulted?
2006-11-15 01:57:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be insulted.....and never agree to it......If he met in the particular condition that i am in why should i change it.
2006-11-15 02:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would be insulted especially if I don't think I need it. I wouldn't have plastic surgery if he asked me too. And I might even re-examine our relationship, because if he doesn't except me for who I am and what I look like then I don't need to be with him. But that's just my opinion.
2006-11-15 10:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I struggle with this...but one thing stays consistant. Would it make you happy? Is this something that creates an issue, as far as something you complain about alot or some? I think the only insult I would get from that is if he made me pay for it, if I agreed it was what I needed @ wanted. Other than that points to remember is it's dangerous, risky and involves pain. Are you willing to do that? BUT if you are completely comfortable with who you are and what you look like. I'd tell him to bite me!....and go get a barbie doll if that is what he wanted. Depends on how he approached it or worded it. But I would totally do it if it's ONLY something I wanted for me....Not for someone else! Especially a boyfriend...BLAH!.....if he met me this way this is the way I stay. But if he met me at great shape and I changed.....well it's something to consider again ONLY if it's what I wanted.....and ONLY that reason.
2006-11-15 10:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would agree if it was for something I wanted too. I would not take it as an insult because as we all know, there are things at times we would like to change about our outside appearance. Or enhance what we already have. (we wear makeup for example)
Best of Luck and if you want it, go for it. We only have one life to live and it's a pretty short one.
Best of Luck
2006-11-15 10:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never change my appears because my boyfriend or husband ask me to. God created me this way, he made us all unique and I wont change.
I would be insulted if I was asked to change what I look like, because it would be saying that I don't like the way you look now.
2006-11-15 10:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only would I not do it but I might just have to reconsider the basis of the relationship. Do I really want to be with someone who thinks that changing some physical aspect of myself is more important than my safety? or even my self esteem? It might add to any insecurities that I had.
If you truly care about someone you'll realize that asking them to do something like that is not healthy for your relationship or their wellbeing (mentally and physically)!
2006-11-15 10:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by britt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'd totally be insulted..more so if it was my husband asking me cuz if he didnt have a problem with my body before we got married why start now..either love it or give it up..if he has a problem with the way you look you should have a problem with him period..your husband is supposed 2 love you for who you are not who your doctor can make you be.
2006-11-15 10:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sexy J ♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it was a kind of surgery i'd like to have (such as breast implants) I would agree to it providing that he agrees to pay the cost of it! LOL
If it was something I didn't want to have done..... then no.
2006-11-15 10:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on what he wanted - if he wanted big pamela anderson boobs, i would say NO - if it was subtle improvements i may agree, as long as he was paying!
p.s. i'm having a little plastic surgery done soon & my guy doesn't want me to do it.
2006-11-15 10:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by livetall1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be insulted because your suppose to like some one because you like them not because of look Or the size of something.
2006-11-15 10:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋