my ex called me yesterday and..?

Question

he called me a whorey skank then hung up.
then he was asking my how much i make whoring myself out to random guys on the street corner
he said all this after telling me he was in love with me
then he called AGAIN wanting to call it truths and be friends
but i had my little sis take the phone tell him i cant talk and hang up on him
i dont want anything to do with him
by him saying all those things did it prove that he really didnt love me?
and why dont any of my relationsips turn out right
either i get cheated on or abused

Answer 1

He is seeing how far he can push you and still get you it's a game for him and probably always will be...don't play...your problem with guys is that you let them have control...take over you be the one in charge maybe not all of the time but at least half then they won't think that your a mat to wipe their feet on...i know i had the same problem always letting guys choose me then thinking I like them...next time YOU choose and it will be much better for you...
good luck sweetie and be strong

Answer 2

First of all he had no right to do that. I believe that was totally immature and uncalled for. When you love somebody you never want to intentionally hurt them and if he said he loves you, then he's got a lot to learn. Ignore him. Don't answer those phone calls. I'm not sure what happened in your relationship with him, but remember this...You need to respect yourself. Don't let other guys take advantage of you and sweet talk you into doing things, especially if you don't know if they're really in it for the long haul. It's okay to play the field, but you need to definately let guys know that you respect yourself. I believe you'll be treated differently if you do this. Good luck!

Millie

Answer 3

By saying all those things, it proves he's an immature jerk. Do NOT answer his calls or speak to him ever again and report him to the authorities if he continues to harrass him.

Be honest with yourself and look at your part of the relationships you've been in. Are you involving yourself with guys you know are shady and dishonest? Do you stand up for yourself and let them know that cheating and abuse is NOT okay and will NOT be tolerated - not even one time? I hope so because life's too short to be treated poorly. Learn to stand up for yourself and have confidence and know that there are men out there who will treat you how you deserve to be treated and until you can find one, learn to enjoy being single. Being cheated on and abused is worse than being alone!!!

Answer 4

No he probably really does love you, but doesn't know the right way as he is saying all those things because he is jealous that you are dating others instead of him. I would continue what you are doing, have no or as little contact with him as you possibly can. As for your other relationships, you are choosing the wrong guys, so whatever your type is try going for the opposite and maybe you will find someone that won't cheat on you or abuse you, but know this it is not your fault that they cheat or abuse, its their problem not yours.

Answer 5

my ex used to say if i would start charging for it instead of giving it away for free then we would be rich. this guy is nuts sugar. that was emotional abuse at its ugliest and you should cut him out of your life completely. take a look in the mirror. think about what you see and who you are inside. you are special and nobodys doormat. try to be strong and do not under any circumstances settle for less than you deserve. mr right is out there and when you find him you will know because all you past relationships will seem like nothing. there are men out there that know how to treat a lady like a lady and until he comes, concentrate on making yourself happy. in the end you are the only one who can. be strong and remember, you deserve the best.

Answer 6

Hun he's not worth it, and don't worry you'll find the right person soon enough and you have to put your foot down and don't let guys walk all over you. try just dating for a while and no serious commitments and maybe try dating someone that you wouldn't normally date maybe your looking for the wrong things in a guy. what ever you do good luck and remember don't take crap from any man!

Answer 7

Women tend to look for and be attracted to a particular type of man. In your case it's the wrong type. Think about what attracted you to him and the others and try to avoid that type in the future. Stay away from this guy he is not stable. The question of whether or not he loves you is irreverent. He wants ownership not love.

Answer 8

sometimes we attract these type of men because of the initial contact we make with them. these type of men sent out a small sample of their personality from the get-go and if they don't get a rejection from the person they are feeling out then they know they have a chance.

so look at the way you may be portraying yourself and be more assertive and don't feel you have to smile and be kind to every bum that looks at you. be choosy and don't take on anything that your ex said. don't answer his calls because he is testing the waters even more, to see if you will still accept him eventhough he has been abusive to you.

good luck and forget about him

Answer 9

Don't fret over this immature jerk. He is trying to intimidate you so don't let it work. Someday you'll meet someone who is mature and will treat you like a princess. May take some time, but it will happen. Just be patient and don't sell yourself short. Your ex is doing this out of anger, not because he really believes you whore yourself.

Answer 10

Get caller ID so you never have to talk to him . He is a jerk and you don't need him . Tell everyone in the house if they answer the phone you are not available for him ever .Hey if he can't get ahold of you he can't abuse you anymore.