my brother is going out with a girl who used to be MY friend then once she started going out with my brother she started ignoring me then all togetter even stoped saying hi to me and my momther when she came into our house and has called my mom several times screaming and bitching at her then this girl turns around and tells everyone she knows that we hate her my mother and i hate her and she tells everyone we have never at anypoint said we hated her my mother demands respect and she refuses to give it she calls it kissing her *** and she wont stop fraking out crying and telling everyone that we hate her when we clearly dont we just think she crazy and now she emails me back and forth in a big arguement and everything i say she denis even though its true like i tell her we dont hate u and then she flips and screams that we do and i said y do u think we hate u and she said that we hate her for no reason. it this ***** crazy or am i?
and yes my brother already knows and hes on her side
2006-11-15 01:18:38 · 11 answers · asked by Bukurii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She does sound crazy. Why does she think that you are your mum don't like her, you both obviously like her before she started making up all this rubbish. Also I don't understand why your brother is on her side when she is telling lies about you. Have either you or your mom ever said anything negative about her when he was around?
The point is you have tried talking to her, at this point I think its best that you just ignore and leave her and your brother alone to get on with things. The thing is do you think that at a later date if she ever splits with your brother she might blame it on you and your mum saying that they never liked me and that it why we broke up. Just something to bear in mind, considering this she is already telling other people that you both don't like her
2006-11-15 01:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah she's a little bit psycho. Stop emailing her and talking to her. If someone asks you say no we don't hate her, she has her own issues. You see your mother not making attempts towards her because she has no reason to. She was probably even using you to get to your brother in the beginning. There is nothing you can do about someone elses actions. Take your mother as a guide, and stop bothering with this girl, your mother doesn't. And remember she is just your brother's girlfriend, you don't have to befriend her if she is treating your mother and you in this manner.
2006-11-15 01:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a person acts like that, they have something to hide, and it's usually a "bad" thing. Whether she's having sex with your brother, taking drugs, both or something else. When a person is doing something they shouldn't, they get on the defensive and take it out on people, so they can condone their behavior. It's either "that" or this girl just flat out doesn't have any butter on her pancakes! (she's nuts!) Hopefully, your brother will see this before there is an addition to your family on the way. Good luck to all 3 of you.
2006-11-15 01:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her ask her why she is trying to pick fights with you? maybe she is because she likes your brother but still wants to be friends with you but figures if your are not her friend she won't have to worry about you hating her about going out w/ your brother.
2006-11-15 01:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Positivitydeepbreathing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its her. just leave it alone some people love to cause conflicts in the home when she comes over your mom and you should smile sweetly say hello and leave it at that if she percists in acting like a raging manic than go in a different room. your broyher will come around soon enough .
2006-11-15 01:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by auntie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there was ONE period in that whole thing...it just went on and on. I can't make heads or tails of it...what the blood?
Stop the emailing and listening to what everyone else says. Talk to her face to face.....I guess that advice fits...
2006-11-15 01:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's crazy, and so is your brother for being with her. Hopefully he will wake up and see her for who she really is. She clearly only used you to get to him.
2006-11-15 01:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a bad person i think that she was seeking your friendship at frist place to reach your brother who is a negative one .
leave the both of them to go to hell
2006-11-15 03:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by esz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a psycho bimbo to me.
2006-11-15 03:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds crazy, but she is making you so angry that now you are sounding crazy too!
2006-11-15 01:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋