because i am into such problem now. i have a serious relationship with my boyfriend and we have promised to marry each other. But i found out that the woman he promised he has left, that they are still communicating. I am not a troublesome person, in order to avoid trouble in future, what will i do? But i love him and he love me too.
2006-11-15 01:01:10 · 19 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
collect your freebie and let him know that if it is ok for him, it is ok for you
2006-11-15 01:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to be straight up, if he's cheating while you two are engagged, what makes you think he wont cheat on you again? Think about how this will affect the marriage & so forth. I was with a guy once & we too were engagged & i walked in on him cheating. He swore not to do it again. Just like I figured though he was up to no good once again. I told him he had to pick either me or the rest of the girls in the world or i would no longer talk to him. We ended up breaking up. Dont let that happen, it sucks.. big time. Get to the bottom of it in the begining. Do you know this person? If you do that's even a better reason to leave. I know you must love him an incredible deal, but it's not worth the arguing & stress in the long run, trust me. I would suggest even holding off the marriage until you both are ready to fully commit. Till death to us part. Good luck sweetie!!
2006-11-15 09:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they have children together they would need to communicate....if they are just keeping in touch as friends and he is being honest with you about it I wouldn't worry too much. I believe that men and women can be friends after a relationship is over. IF however he is still sleeping with her then get out of the relationship as fast as you can!
2006-11-15 09:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by deziakgurl407 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, he promised that he left this woman but is still in contact with her. He is lying to you now and if you want to be lied to in the future, then marry the guy.
2006-11-15 09:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it ask him why he still communicates with her... trust is very important in a relationship.....if he isnt doing anything then there shouldnt be anything to hide since yall are engaged you both should be open and able to communicate to "each other"
2006-11-15 09:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady,
Leave him. What is wish is true coz if they are still in the communication list they will never get apart for you. Better way is get out of their way and you are the luckiest person as you have founf out that the person is wrong.
2006-11-15 09:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by nag K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are naturally inclined to "roam" just like all animals created by the Lord.What would you do if you are married and he cheats you? leave him?i think you have to hold on tight to what you have and not loose him.keep on doing those nice things you do to him that makes him to like you and dont fight the woman too just be yourself at all times.good luck
2006-11-15 09:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Demmy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not real clear, but from what I make of it-if he cheated on you-don't you dare marry him! You are asking for years of trouble and pain if you do.
2006-11-15 09:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The forget about it. Let bygones be bygones. No use crying over split milk, The present is only your available cash , so spent it wisely.
2006-11-15 09:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a problem as long as he involves you into conversation with her.Also if it's an everyday thing i would be concerned and think twice about marrying him.
2006-11-15 09:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat
2006-11-15 09:04:34 · answer #11 · answered by clutch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋