I know people will say there's no time limit, or when it feel right. But on average how long has it been in your relationships? Is three months too soon, is one year too long?
2006-11-15 01:00:04 · 20 answers · asked by Luv Lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your heart will let you know.
2006-11-15 01:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by stevie869 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is nothign like too soon !! you can love a person instantly or it might take a lifetime !!
3 months may be too soon if you have not known the person for long !
i mean if you hav not been frnds befor ethis !
and i guess 5 to 6 months is a decent amount of time after which if you dont feeel in love i dont think its the greatest idea to continue !
but if you feel right ab it dont be afraid to express it
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tc
2006-11-15 09:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was into a relationship for two years without a word of i love u, until somebody else came around under one month and told me that he loves me and my first guy starting crying and complaining that he has been looking for a better way and better time to tell me, but then it was late. So it is better to express your feel once not minding whether it is three months or one year, but what matters is. Do you truely love her? Open up your feelings once and save the doubting from your pattern
2006-11-15 09:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would wait until 5-6 months. By then you should know if you really do love the person or not. And you're right, people do say it when they mean it. If you don't know that meaning and you're just saying to feel good, then you're saying it for the wrong reasons.
2006-11-15 09:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by The Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but everyone is different, 3 mo is not too soon one year is not too long. I would venture to say that after 1 year is possibly too long. If you are with someone for over a year and you don't have feelings of love for them, time to move on.
2006-11-15 09:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Elvira 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
three months might be a little too soon unless u really want him to know like a.s.a.p i would wait till like mayb 5 or 6 months just cuz u know the person more and what not
2006-11-15 09:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can really answer this. 1 year is to long, 3 months is ok, but whenever you know you love that person, you should say it.
2006-11-15 09:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no corrsct amount of time. You just say it when you FEEL it is the right time.
2006-11-15 09:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Imgoen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me, three months sounds good but its whatever you really feel is right. just make sure he wont dump you or something stupid before you say it to him because then you would be pretty upset!
2006-11-15 09:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you, him and your relationship and how it's going, in a previous relationship it took us 2 months... in another it took him 1 month!!!
it's about you not what others went through or how long it took them
2006-11-15 09:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer the better , wait until he says I love you first or you will be sorry.
2006-11-15 09:05:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋