Is it okay having a affair with a co- worker that is kept on the down low. NOt telling friends or friends on job is ok. if the affair happen do you think the word will get around the workplace. please serious answers only
2006-11-15 00:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by merry c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we work in different departments and we both show interest in each other but i not sure that why i here seeking advice . if i should pursue this or not
2006-11-15 00:31:25 · update #1
we work in different departments and we both show interest in each other but i not sure that why i here seeking advice . if i should pursue this or not
2006-11-15 00:31:26 · update #2
we dont talk to each other on the job we just give each other eye contact and he a new employee i never did this before so Im not sure i currently with my boyfriend but i not getting any attention form him
2006-11-15 00:33:35 · update #3
i havent had an affair with him yet, i was thinking if i should do this or not.
2006-11-15 00:39:27 · update #4
1: i heard he has a gf
2 I dont want to start no drama
3 we both interest each other and secondly maybe he not happy with the girl
3. i not single I have a bf but we never have privacy and he not been giving me no attention for along time
4. I not sure if I should do this on the work place and beside we dont even talk to each other we use our eye contact and dont make it noticeable we work in different dept. nobody knows. so how will be caught
5. last but not least most people said on here it a big risk
2006-11-15 00:43:59 · update #5
Is it really a relationship if you can't let anyone know about it, or is it just for sex? Just keep in mind that when things dont work out you still have to work together.
2006-11-15 00:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, yeah! No matter what people are going to talk. Think about it, if the girl is really hot, you are going to tell someone. You have to, you can't let a hot girl go without letting someone know! I mean, honestly, you are already talking about it to a few million strangers here. Plus she will tell at least one friend about it, and it seems like the friend that they always tell is the one who will start telling other people. Before you know it, your significant other will find out. Besides, even though i believe that monogomus relationships are a thing of the past, you shouldn't cheat. Trust me, someone will find out, and you will end up on Maury to see if the baby is yours, or taking a lie detector test. (Ok, so i was sick one day and didn't go to work, I layed on the couch and watched Maury because nothing else was on)
2006-11-15 00:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you don't end it soon then somehow someway somebody will find out.It happened to a friend of mine.Some nosy lady went snooping around and kept putting two and two together,You know,when one wasn't at work the other wasn't,the fact that he sent a text message,and her phone was the phone that vibrated.Stuff like that.And then your business will be all over the office!!!So to avoid that from happening,stop the affair......
2006-11-15 00:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shana T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word would spread around like margerine on toasty bread. Trust me, you don't want to go down that road, as you can get both of yourselfs fired and that's never good. Remember kids; "Don't dip your pen in the company ink"
2006-11-15 00:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Danny G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK if both of you are still single. Then why not tell it to your co-workers if there is nothing to hide between your status. Go & continue, its love & relationship. Unless your already married then better for you to stop it. Good luck.
2006-11-15 00:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although co-workers dating is off-limits in most workplaces, if u 2 can keep a TIGHT lid on ur secret, then GO 4 IT!!!!!!!!!!
act like u don't know each other at work. then at nite, WOW!!
watch the fireworks.
2006-11-15 00:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by hott_stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong no matter what the setting is. Yes the word will get around because she will want to tell someone.
2006-11-15 00:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
affairs are never good ! on of them days you will get caught ,regardless if you don't tell anybody
2006-11-15 00:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....... they usually leak out eventually...... Your'e risking your wife and family and future..... It's just not worth risking it, for something, little more than a fling!...
2006-11-15 00:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats terrible. i hope word does get around and I hope it gets to your spouse because your a nasty nasty s,lut. thats horrible.
2006-11-15 00:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋