Most guys like my friends because they are not and they never talk to me. Does that mean that there is something wrong with me?
2006-11-15 00:16:09 · 20 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They probably don't talk to you because you are shy, not because you are a virgin. How would they even know that? Are you wearing a sandwich board to announce it to the world? I doubt it!
Apart from that how do you know your friends aren't just as virginal! Teenagers exaggerate a lot - they might just be trying to be "in".
2006-11-15 00:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you. For some reason, people think there is a time line to loose their virginity. Which is silly. Then when they do, and are rejected by the one to whom they gave it up to they are devastated. Don't let anyone pressure you or make you feel weird because you have something that others still wish they had. If they guys don't talk to you because you are still a virgin, those aren't the kinds of guys you'd want to give it up to anyway, or have as friends.
2006-11-15 08:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Most people don't have the strength to resist either their urges or peer pressure and end up giving in. I think that they make fun of you because deep down they are ashamed that they themselves couldn't do it. There are hundreds of thousands of virgins around the world so you are definitely not alone. I work with a 28 year old man who is a virgin and proud of it. A lot of our co-workers pick on him and try to set him up with promiscuous girls, but it doesn't work. He stands his ground and tells them that he will keep his virginity and only give it up to his wife. This way he can guarantee her that he is disease free and doesn't have any stray children out there. I personally support him and I take up for him. No I wasn't a virgin when I got married.
2006-11-15 08:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you, Be proud of yourself. Don't let ANYONE ever try to take away your morals or values. I think its a lot easier for girls to be virgins then guys, since nowadays the thought about guys is that they are all sex-crazed maniacs. Its good talking to you! Gives me hope that there are still some decent guys out there...
2006-11-15 08:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Iron Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the people who make fun of you are assholes and when they get an STD or a girl pregnat then you can laugh your *** off. They only make fun of you because you have standards and you wont comply to the people around you. i think what your doing is great i plan on being a virgin when i get married. I bet most of those people secretly wish they where still virgins and that there sex experiance was better.
2006-11-15 08:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To some people, having sex at your age is a must. Dont feel ignored by your lack of having sex comes from within and not many people have it. Time will come and you will get yourself a nice lady for a wife and you can have what you want anytime anywhere. Have you tried to imagine jumping into a deep se yet you dont know how to swim?
2006-11-15 08:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre problably just jelous of you. There are not many people that are virgin. I wish I had waited till I was 18 or 19...
I think it's cool to be a virgin today :o)
Don't let anyone make you feel bad. Then you are only making them stronger...this is your life not theirs, and its up to you when you make that big decision to loose your virginality...
Sorry for the spellin...English is not my first language
2006-11-15 08:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Thelma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, it just means you require effort and work in a relationship with you. That is something most guys don't want to put forth. And those are exactly the guys you want to stay away from.
2006-11-15 08:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have way more strong morals than they do. You have to stand up for you convictions and not let anyone influence you to break your convictions. To me you are the better person because you have morals and convictions where I see that they don't. Stay strong and you will be a better person in the long run and won't find yourself in trouble.
2006-11-15 08:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all.
there is nothing wrong with you. Guys are just ******* if you don't want to have sex till your wedding than thats great, a real man wont care that your a virgin, any guy that is that shallow isnt worth your time.
2006-11-15 08:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋