well the guy i love said yes another guy asked me out i am saying no but i dont wana brakes his heart help me out
2006-11-14 22:48:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love happens with only one and only once in lifetime. If you are in doubt means you are not sincere to your love. There is no concept of first love, second love and so on dear. Be practical, listen to your heart and then decide. Don't cheat yourself as well as others.
Wish you find true love in only one guy who deserves your love.
2006-11-14 22:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ay,just be honest with the other guy if you are already in a relationship with the guy that you love.You can't be resposible for the other persons feelings if you are true and honest.Besides by being truthful you will save him alot of pain .Hurt is a sad part of life so arm yourself with this knowledge and sit this other guy down and tell him that you are in a relationship and that you love your boyfriend so you cannot go out with him.Tell him that you are sorry and respect his feelings and end it there and have a great relationship with your boyfriend that you love.In the future you'll respect yourself,the other guy will have closure and move on with some hurt but will respect you for being honest and saving him heartache.Life does have a funny way of working its self out-believe me when I say that.-Good luck.peace.Chio!Riz>.
2006-11-15 07:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest! Tell the second guy that you are already in love. If he cares about you even slightly, he will understand. Not wanting to break his heart is very nice of you, but sometimes......Love hurts.
2006-11-15 06:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by shepherd169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said yes to another guy asking u out? I'm confused about this question. Don't break anyone's heart and just decide the one u like most.
2006-11-15 06:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by hotbitch69_xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how your relationship is if you are commited to your love so let the other guy know you have a boyfriend and he will understand. This entitles that you're honest and your boyfriend will love you more than you think, and I think it's the best thing to do.
2006-11-15 07:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by zephyr a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be in doubt if u are in luv seriously.
If you are doubtful it means you yourself is not sincere towards your so called love.
I think you should ask your inner soul "Whom do you love? First or second".
Whatever be the answer go ahead with that. Do think too much to say "no" to either of them.
Dont try to luv each and every person who says to you that "He loves you". Coz LOVE HAPPENS ONLY ONCE AND WITH ONLY ONE, REST IS LIFE.
So be sure of whatever you are gonna do. Otherwise you will be only in loss.
2006-11-15 07:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Vipul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "other guy" will not have a broken heart ...just explain you already have someone and that you are in love.
Tell him you are flattered( if you are) for the invitation.
2006-11-15 06:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by truthwalker7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey theres nothing you can do to not make it hurt men do take these things to heart most times but hey just sit him down and explain it to him that youre sorry but ya heart belongs to another and you cant argue with fate
2006-11-15 06:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that currently u have a boyfriend! It might break his heart but tell him that you still want to stay in touch, so he won't feel like he's totally losing you.
2006-11-15 06:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by noniken123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why close the door to opportunity ? I never could understand why, any young person would want to be tried to one person only. i guess, I'm gettin' older and don't want to settle down just yet !
2006-11-15 07:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋