I was really mean to this guy and acted like a crazy person..but he told me he could never be angry at me and he will miss me while I go to play in Italy and he hopes I can meet him somwhere and he won't forget me...why I was so cruel to him he was just a friend but I told him I could never love him cut him off my IM and then tried to re add him and he accepted..why is he can't be angry at me I can't understand...
2006-11-14 22:25:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sent him hundreds of messages but he didn't answer him so I told him I was going back to my BF I think I was just lusting after him and was confused at the time..but now his cellphone is off he hasn't got the message yet...
2006-11-14 22:31:51 · update #1
I did tell I fell for him but then I think I was confused
2006-11-14 22:33:31 · update #2
I haven't seen him in 5 years but found his Im and started to IM him..I don't think he loves me or he would have answered me
2006-11-14 22:41:58 · update #3
I wish all the men I met were like him. Girl you'll lose a lot if you don't try your best to win him back. He's simply a GENTLEMAN with every meaning the word carries.
2006-11-14 22:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer, its because HE LOVES YOU. And if you're not understand it, maybe you really have no feelings for him.BUT dont be too sure,maybe as of now he is nothing for you, but as time goes by you will appreciate every crazy things he's doing right now just to be with you..For me this guy is a very good catch because not all guys are like him, not all guys are doing everything just to have the girl he wants.So just stand by there, and also observe yourself. If there is really no hope that you could love him, then be transparent to him and tell him what you really feel.Hope could help you somehow.Thats all.
2006-11-14 22:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy indeed loves you, for what reasons I may not know. Regardless of his feelings, what matters is you. From your explanation it seems you are also in doubt over your feelings on him. Search your soul carefully and decide whether to accept him, ask for more time to think it over and if you dont love him then let him know that you dont love him but do it in a friendly manner not meanly. As for him, it may be interesting to find out from him why he cant let go. It may help you in future to know how guys view you.
2006-11-14 22:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you have really hooked yourself a winner this time whether you wanted to or not. This guy has fallen for you big time. He certainly seems genuine enough, lucky you. Please don't abuse his kindness, if you really don't like him be honest with him and tell him.Be gentle though, he has a big heart, don't break it. I just read your adds, l hope you are not playing games with this guy. That would be very unfair on him. He seems to genuinely care about you, give him the same courtesy please.
2006-11-14 22:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are submissive. Some people hit a breaking point and change. Maybe he is, but doesn't show it. Or maybe he loves you so much nothing you do can sway that. Guaranteed, once he has you that will change.
2006-11-14 22:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly sounds like he has deeper feelings than friends for you. You should be happy there is a guy out there who is so forgiving. He also sounds like a fairly decent guy he could possible be a keeper.
2006-11-14 22:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hoping that you will come around one day. If not, he's happy to admire you from afar. Take it as a compliment, and if you are up to it give him a chance.
2006-11-14 22:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real winner to me, and a very rare sort of man. I would try to rope this one in and marry him...that is, if you can resolve to be a good woman for him.
2006-11-14 22:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just a guess, but I'd say he wants to do to you what he feels you've been doing to him, only he'll get a much better feeling from it than you did!!!
2006-11-14 22:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm does he have a younger brother cuz most guys are wierd he's definatly a keeper,tell him you like/love/care for him.The truth shall set u free....LOL!
2006-11-14 22:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋