I came out a decade long relationship and felt so lost, was slowly starting to move on and met this really amazing guy, went on a number of dates then he just ceased to contact me and i just feel so lost and lonely. Why do i constantly feel i need to be with someone? What can i do to make myself happy with just me? I feel so alone and unhappy.
2006-11-14 22:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by akaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to take a break from the men, so that you can find out who you are and what you like to do and then you will find that you are a whole person who doesn't require a man to complete you, just enhance you. Only when you can be happy without someone else can you be happy.
2006-11-14 22:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are feeling this because you have had a man in your life for so long. I was with my ex for 14 years and when I left him I went through a stage of looking for a "replacement" and had no luck and there are a lot of things that I did that I am not necessarily proud of now but....................
I grew up and realized that I didn't need to have a man in my life all I needed was my friends...
now I am happily married to my husband of 2 months and things are great
we compliment each other and we need each other for each other not because we need to have a man/woman to be whole.
You'll understand when you are ready to become "YOUR OWN PERSON"
2006-11-14 22:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u had come to one point where u need to slow your pace down and smell the flowers round u.. once u have done that, u will be much clearer of wad u wan... now i dare say u r on a 'rebound' u just wan someone to fill up that empty spot in your heart (dat's wad makes u whole)...
slow down yer pace.. enjoy being wif just yourself before movin on to a relationship... always find yourself first before finding someone else... =)
HUGS ( hope dat makes u better )
2006-11-14 22:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not lonely. There are heaps of guys out there. Keep looking. You'll find an even better one.
2006-11-14 22:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the relationship you were in just wasnt meant to be and youre still looking for ya one true love the one you can be completely at ease with the one you will always love
2006-11-14 22:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because you believe in cinderella. go out. make friends you'll find that they too can make you very happy. when the time comes the right man will come
2006-11-14 22:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by vilasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nothing more then human nature. We feel someone most when it is lost.
2006-11-14 22:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy... just smile,, you are not alone:P
2006-11-14 22:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have our rib
2006-11-14 22:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋