on average... how long do you think it takes for a broken heart to mend?? what about broken dreams and hopes??
2006-11-14 22:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sandra D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really know what you mean, and it is so hard.
Remember that this is all from within you, thus you can fix it yourself too.
Your broken heart will be whole again in the near future.
To speed this up you can do a few thing, and believe me they have helped me.
Don't see the person if you can manage it at all, in a book they say about 2 months. I had to see my ex every day, and even make small talk with him on occasion. At the time I wanted to see him but looking back it has just made the whole process agonisingly harder.
Don't wallow in self pity, go out, see your friends, excercise this will really help and when you see him in passing in the future you'll look great, but overall do this for yourself, because you must love you.
It always depends on you personnally, but I reckon that if you don't see him for a good amount of time, you will realise you can get along just fine by yourself. If you do see him or hear about how he is doing, this will make things ten times harder, so don't.
He missed out on you not the other way around, and you never do no what is around the corner,
You know you will eventually forget and move on
I hope you don't suffer too much
good luck
2006-11-14 22:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit on mending a broken heart, your heart will let you know when your ready to try again.
Dreams and hopes never brake they just happen in their own time.
2006-11-14 22:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different but a broken heart would take at least 6 months.
2006-11-14 22:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry my dear, there is no average. Ask Jesus Christ to come into your heart and he WILL heal your broken wounds. Sometimes we are left with certain feelings and emotions so that we will have compassion on others and be able to relate to them as we help them with their problems. Who in your life needs support because they have a broken heart, dream, or hope? Maybe your purpose is to help them, and inadvertantly, you will be helped as well. Peace and blessings.
2006-11-14 23:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by tcom1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it takes, & as long as you know you don't want to stay in that situation. Broken dreams & hopes? There's still time to go for them. Think big!
2006-11-14 22:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some memmories are immortal. They leave with some sweet dreams and tragic moments.
2006-11-14 22:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-14 22:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by petercrys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋