Its been 3 weeks since we broke up, and I am still feeling pretty bad about it. We broke up because she was told that I cheated on her but I didn't!! She is blinded by her pride and won't see how much I love her and am willing to do to get her confidence back. How could I make her give me another chance?? Do you believe it would be better to give her space and don't talk to her for some days or until she looks for me?? Or should I keep on begging?? I need really good advise PLEASE! I truly believe that our relationship was perfect and that she still has feelings for me from the way she has acted, also she says that we should keep on being friends but if she really thinks I cheated on her would she be saying this?! I am confused, please help me out
2006-11-14 21:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not perfect since she doesnt believe you. who said that> theres no trust apparently...forget her...shes gone
2006-11-14 21:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her miss you, or make her trust you. Both are things that build up over time through having a close relationship. If she truly does have feelings for you then she will make the decision on her own to discuss it with you and allow you to earn her trust again. I'm not sure how long you were going out, but if she is willing to throw away a relationship because of gossip, it would seem she doesn't place the relationship is high regard as you. It may be time to find someone that will.
2006-11-14 21:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by wine_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men become more attactched than women do due to our hormones they way they work. So we get hit deeper, but we recover sooner. Some way. It evens out. Point is..
Dont beg, get back up. Your seeking revenge almost the way you worded your title. Best thing to do is, well first Iam a John Wayne fan, so would John Wayne do what your doing right now? Common, saddle up and ride anyways. Dont seek revenge or a way to make her miss you. All thats goign to happen is you'll exhaust your energy into it and shes going to move on and not see any of it. Take week to think on it, or how ever long, but dont dwell. What if while your dwelling that perfect someone walks past you, and see a broken man.
2006-11-14 21:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE U ANOTHER CHANCE..? Oops!
By saying that,you sound like you really did it. Did you?.How could u ask for another chance if u haven't misused any first chance..?.just tell her ur whole truth and if she wants to go and continue listening to third parties then u can start looking for some other good girl who doesn't have time for gossips,n she'll even get serious.
2006-11-14 21:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in ur shoes, i wouldnt be begging.. i would just let her be.. i would really be good to her.. like take care for her..but don't let her go by not talking to her.. i would just start from the beggining..like.. be nice to her.. care for her.. be her best friend. .. basically just be thier for her all times.. by this.. she would notice how much you still love her and still cares..:P goodluck.. dude to tel u the truth.. thier is no perfect relationship.. thier will always be something bad that can happen to ur relationship.. its both of u two's job to fix it if u want ur relationship to go really well
2006-11-14 21:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by mike s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was looking for a reason to break up. You can't control some one else's feelings. Girls are like a bus.....miss one, catch the next one.
2006-11-14 21:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Brain_scurvey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't any thing .If she loves you she will come back to you.
2006-11-14 21:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋