2006-11-14 21:21:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r a nice guy!
stick 2 yr decision.......be firm!
i really respect u 4 thinking like this!
good luck!
2006-11-14 22:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy -if you don't believe in sex before marriage then my friend you only have three obvious choices= #1-Marry her, /#2-Sleep with her(intercourse) or /#3-Dump her after you talk to her and tell her how you feel about that issue and she doesn't respect your feelings. You have to also respect her and her needs-it doesn't make her a bad person-you just share different views and you both have the right to your feelings.One thing I should point out that even though she does want sex-she wants it from you-when she can easily get it else where.She sounds like a good girl my friend,why don't you think about marrying her?Just a thought.peace.Chio!Good luck buddy.Riz>.
2006-11-15 05:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she wants you to have sex with her; do this:
sit her down and tell her that you dont belive in sex before marriage (even if you've done it) if she still doesnt understand what you're feeling, tell her that she needs to respect your beliefs and if she cant do that its better if you leave her. if she loves you she'd stay but if she leaves then its her loss. there arent alot of guys that are like you. she doesnt know how lucky she is.
Make sure you tell her that it has nothing to do with her and its all about you and how you feel; i presume guilt? either by religion or by the teachings of your parents.
2006-11-15 05:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to explain to your GF that doing an intercourse can make her pregnant........... And tell her that after the marriage she can insist you to do an intercourse... I THINK THATS BETTER!!!!!!
2006-11-15 05:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by sandy p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear HK Junior,
Please do grow up and stop making stories. The fact is that if you are an Indian boy then this question u have asked is a total lie. Pl learn to be serious in life and stop fooling yourself and others with you.
2006-11-15 06:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Raja R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have some important differences in your values. This is serious and I would discuss it with her because this may not be the only thing you disagree on. This marriage may not be a good idea.
2006-11-15 05:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him frankaly that it is wrong to do so if he is good guy he will understand you but if not means he only intrested in intercourse not in you
2006-11-15 05:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel u see the idea of having sex is not that bad but it also mean that u and ur grlfrnds state of mind has a huge difference in the way u take ur relationship so i would suggest either u compromise with her or make her compromise with u because mutual compromisation is tough in ur case like the banks of river can't meet.
2006-11-15 05:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her abut how you feel and if she truely loves she will respect your opinion about sex before marriage. But then again if you are the adventourous type, may be its worth trying.
2006-11-15 06:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sammo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks lets be serious...a GUY doesnt want to have se*x??
Thats shocking!!!
anyway, i will suggest u comply with her demands and have se*x with her - otherwise she may go and do it with someone random guy in a bar...!
anyway if u r absolutely against se*x - dont penetrate her - but staisfy her ody using ur tongue and fingers atleast...come on dude, a girl has needs too!!
BE A MAN!
2006-11-16 01:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋