We broke up sometime ago, but i still remmeber her... i dont know why i got depressed when she sent me her wedding invitation card. Plz advice me guys how may i cope this up.
2006-11-14 21:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by lovegotrotten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's cold! Did you guys remain friends when you broke up?
The reason you probably got depressed is because you still in love with her and now that she is getting married - nothing can ever come from that! See, before when she was just dating, you still had a "chance" a slim chance but a chance none the less!No that she is getting married she is just "untouchable".
The fact that you dated also means you are probably a little angry that she was yours and now she is not! Maybe deep down you feel that it could have been the two of you getting married and now some other guy has staked his claim!
Time is the only thing that will help you get over her - you need to let go! Its easier said than done though! And it's going to take a bit of while (even if you are in a relationship already).
Focus on other stuff - a hobby, your work, family - different things and if you decide not to go to the wedding then make sure you are doing something else on that day instead of sitting at home and thinking about it!
My heart goes out to you dude!!!!!!!
Xx
2006-11-14 21:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by honeyed_dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling of rejection, separation in love. Its gonna hurt try doing things you really enjoy games,movies,books,music. But its gonna hurt. Remember that there is a difference between loving someone and possessing someone, you love her not own her so ...will have to let it go.
2006-11-14 21:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love her, and there will be NO answer in the world being admitted from an outsider.
good luck to ya
2006-11-14 21:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋