2006-11-14 21:03:12 · 14 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ONE DAY WILL BE YOUR EX.
2006-11-14 21:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your partner is being pretty fair! No fuss is being made that you are speaking to your ex which in most cases "is a big deal" but I guess not wanting to hear about him is fair to! Maybe your ex feels just a little threatened by your ex? Just try to put yourself in his shoes and see how you would feel!
Xx
2006-11-15 05:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by honeyed_dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could be jealous. Ok he doesnt mind you talking to your ex but just maybe he doesnt want to hear about it. Would you be the same in his situation. If he chatted to an ex then went on about what they talked about would you like it.
Talk to your ex but you dont have to tell your partner all about it. keep the two seperate.
2006-11-15 05:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky, but not too bright...he's giving you the benefit of allowing you to connect with whomever you please, but tells you upfront that he'd rather not be the sounding board for your ex's problems or conversations. I'd say he's being extremely understanding and open-minded; what do you want him to do? Invite him over for dinner, listen to his jokes and like the Inuit, offer his wifes' bed as a token of his friendship and sense of giving??? You'd better wake up before you're one of these angry, bitter women asking why your husband has run off with the babysitter after all your years of love and loyalty...
2006-11-15 05:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You understand how he feels.
He's not possessive or jealous. He is quite able to handle you talking to your ex he just doesn't want to hear you go on about him or the conversation. He's an ex boyfriend! How would you feel if your boyfriend was talking about his ex all the time?
Exactly!!!
2006-11-15 05:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to him... Would you like to hear him tell the story of the noises a previous mate made when he went down on her?
We don't want to hear about X's either
2006-11-15 05:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he trusts you but just doesnt wanna hear but him... so.. dont talk about him... hell.. even limit your talking to him would probally make your man feel great and know that you love HIM...
no matter what he says.. every man is insecure and will have a secret fear thatyou will go back to the X..
unless you have kids with him and HAVE to talk to him.... let him go.. if you love your new man then be there for HIM.. fu ck your ex...
2006-11-15 05:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He minds, but he just wanted you to know that he trusts you. So be deserving of his trust. Avoid speaking to your ex and talking to him about it. Don't give him any reason to doubt you.
2006-11-15 06:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows that your partner has trust & confidence in you.
Why do you want to keep talking about your Ex? Its ur past !!!!! Move on.
2006-11-15 05:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem my boyfriend doesnt mind me talking to my ex but if i mention it he goes mad he calls them 'section3' meaning we are not allowed to talk about it. makes u wonder doesnt iy, i would go mental if he started talking to his ex it just wouldnt happen. i wouldnt worry maybe he is just not the jealous type. maybe ask him why he is annoyed, it couldnt hurt ay!
good luck
2006-11-15 05:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by heleney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur partner just doesnt wannna hear bout him
2006-11-15 05:05:24 · answer #11 · answered by skaterboarder zachary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋