Me and my ex dated for a year. I was in love, then when we broke up I was hurt and it upset. We didn't talk for almost 6 months. I tried to move on and I was feeling good. We started talking again recently. Now 1 and a half years later she asks me to go out with her to movie and a dinner. We went out and everything went very well. We're going out again next week. She showed some attraction on our date, a little bit of flirting. Does she want me back or is it possible she just wants to be friends? I am just very confused.
2006-11-14 20:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by B Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont jump the gun... she obviously wants you back.. so play hard to get.. thats what SHE wants... if she wanted to JUMP in to it then she wouldda said oh baby i miss you you were the best..
as it stands,, it sounds like she does miss you and refrets whatever may have happened.. so be with her... you need to make sure that whatever happened last time wont happen again...
it may just be a game... she knows that you love her and likes the attention... so she will want while its easy and convienient and as soon as ANYBODY comes along she will drop you..
not saying that thats the case... but i am repeatedly going through that stupid **** with my ex wife... and because i love her and im stupid i keep letting her back in... yup... dont be stupid like me man.... if you think shes sincere then do it... if you have the slightest hint shes playin ya... kick her ass to the curb before she hurts you again
2006-11-14 21:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew David 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all ask her why she's doing whatever she's doing, tell her how you feeling (confused, attracted or whatever) get facts straight if you know what i mean. why does she only want you now after so long yes i know you love her, but really now you didn't and still don't deserve to be hurt the way she did. whether or not you want to get back with her is totally and utterly upto you because in the end you'll be in/out that relationship. ask yourself is she good for me, what does she do to you, does she make you smile, laugh, angry, guilty,etc. basically what i'm saying is soul search yourself and her as well you might find out that there's a better person out there for you or she is the one for you. i believe in second chances but if you see that it's not worth it then don't give a second chance sorry for sounding heartless but i'm just stating the facts and facing reality. i am wishing you all the best of luck and hope you'll make the best dicision for both of yous.
sweetie pie!!
2006-11-14 21:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is consistently giving you time or dating you, possibly he wants you back ..most of the guys, commit a mistake for the first time and later would realize something - either it was a lost or he's happy with what happened..so, he's probably missing you and that's flattering ..but there is a BUT --be careful! make sure of his intention..dont show you're interested, instead show that you're break up was nothing ..be casual =) you could give him a second chance after proving he is sincere
2006-11-14 21:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by hollaback holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a reason she was your ex. Sounds like she can't make up her mind either. Just come out and ask her so you both know where you stand. Otherwise both of you might be thinking differently about this situation. This will end your confusion.
2006-11-14 20:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just let things lead the way. Take a "I'll see where this is going", if it does go somewhere then it does, but it doesn't then too bad. Approach it like you got nothing to loose. If it was meant to be then let it be, but if not, you ain't LOST nothing. Let things work themselves out.
But yeah, why are you letting a girl be in control of the situation?
2006-11-14 21:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by md.gladiator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks to me like she wants you back...ask her if she still has feelings for you and if that feeling is true and sincere..be sure before you decide ...it's not a good feeling to get hurt by her anymore esp. now that you've moved on
2006-11-14 21:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stick around to find out . .I would just go find someone else because you will get hurt all over again. Playing with fire.
2006-11-14 20:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to Ex is wonderful... try to heal and be happy if possible, try to be gentle, be lovely to her and she will be back in your love, if you are clever
2006-11-14 20:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since it seems like ur already dating i would say that she wants u back so ask her!
2006-11-14 20:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by mmackie08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and ask her that ay you will know for sure if she does or not
2006-11-14 21:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋