can anyone tell me any real statistics or actually know of any married women who had a baby while cheating on her husband and the baby is not the husbands but from the man she cheated on him with? and not tell the real husband and let him think the baby is actually his?
2006-11-14 20:27:10 · 16 answers · asked by amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know a woman that got pregnant while cheating. I don't think the woman and her husband stayed together. The trust was gone.
Side note: She gave the child up for adoption, and he was adopted by a good friend of mine. He is very well taken care of and loved.
2006-11-14 20:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Thursdays 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the statistics but I do know of a couple of women that have done that, and it is so wrong..not only for the Husband but also the child and we can't forget about the other guy. Then the husband falls in love with this child and thinks it's his and vice versa..Well a few years go by and mommy and daddy are getting a divorce..both parents want custody..Well Mommy's not going to let that happen so whats the dumb ***** do, she tells the Daddy the truth(finally) but hey whats problem she got everything she wanted so who cares about the dads feelings or the kids.. women like this should not be parents!! Sorry had to vent, This happened to someone I care about!
2006-11-14 20:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
amy : The husband may not know that the child he is bouncing on his knee is not his .. but in the event that this becomes known to him, guess who really is going to suffer? 100 points if you said the BABY. This is why adultery sucks. The baby doesn't ask to be born and catches all the flack. Rejection by the father [husband] will cause the child to have psychological problems later on in life. The wife cheats and the baby gets cheated ... bad news !!! I do know of a person who went through this and ended up being raised by his Grandmother because the woman's husband found out and left her ! I hope it wasn't you "amy" doing this ! Because have "fun" going through life always worried that your husband will find out - bad way to carry on a marriage !
2006-11-14 20:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There would be no reliable statistics on this because there is a high barrier preventing these women from answering honestly.
Some of the women might not know for sure, and others have an interest in keeping the real father a secret.
2006-11-14 20:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jamir 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a burden to carry. This is difficult. I can't really judge you and I don't know your specific details, but try to be honest. I will just make that happier. If the man is so dumb and believes you, you can't cheat yourself. You deserve a true and honest life, so does your husband and your baby. What goes around comes around, just remember that.
2006-11-14 21:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
although i don't about there being any statistics about this, it does happen frequently. i would advise your friend to be honest with her husband. it is better for him to find out now then later when the child is old enough to know what is going on. She should be grown up about the problem she got herself into. Also the man she cheated with should be responsible for his child and not have his burden placed on someone else. good luck.
2006-11-14 20:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by ME I 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would get an abortion if you want to keep your husband. Unless the guy you cheated with looks a lot like your husband, your husband would wonder why the kid looks nothing like him (unless you get lucky and the kid takes completely after you.)
2014-03-26 05:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can cheat on your Husband can you also cheat the Lord I do not think so. You have committed adultery and sooner or later you will reveal the truth because what will you see when you see your child not your husband face. I feel sorry for your poor judgement
2006-11-14 20:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think the husband has a right to know if the baby isn't his,it is unfair to all people involved.
2006-11-15 00:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i doubt there would be any real statistics on this...but surely u cant really be thinking that your not going to tell your husband ... the truth always comes out..
2006-11-14 20:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋