2006-11-14 20:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See, I never understood how people always ask for their space. My wife and I share the same space, and do not yearn to have our own time. If she wants to go shopping or work out, she asks if I want to come...I will go if I feel like it, but she doesn't force me to go or not go. Just do what you want to do, and if he wants to participate, let him. If he doesn't, then you have your time. Is he right for you if you don't want him around for some of your activities? Anyways, if you want him to realize that you want your space, tell him "I need a bit of space." Simple
2006-11-14 20:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam here to be a Good guy not a nice guy. It might be off, but I'll say it just incase.
Some people need constant attention, some needs constant praise, some wants words others wants phycial touching (hugging cuddling etc.) I personally am someone who is not a poem writer, but I will always touch the shoulder, small of the back, trace the jaw lightly etc. If the woman wants songs and poems and nto much touching then were not going to match. Now if thats not the problem and you two line up correctly, then Iam sorry, and possiably its...
Second, Iam just going to flat out say it from here on. Some men believe you have "drown" the woman in attention. In which case just inform them, dont let us draw our own conclusions unless you want to be mean, along with all the trypical things the buddies plant in our head lol, alot of us are alittle lacking on the empathetic side, so we need help occationally :)
Third, he may possiably have a lack of self confiance and thinks that if hes tied to you you cant get away. Which case dump him hes not going to get better unless hes shown how, which could be forever or tomorrow, if hes even willing.
Iam not there personally draw what you can from my male side suggestions. Keep one thing in mind how confident is he of himself. If it high then hes just mis informed of how to treat someone, and enlighten him, not mean but just good be truthful about. Ill let you choose the words :) If it low then well... I see a chain... All you can do is hope he doesnt fall to hard.
Good luck and take care.
2006-11-14 20:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him that yu need space if he don't understand than it was not meant to be
2006-11-14 20:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by simply telling him that you need it. Guys hate it when we make them try to read our minds. They want us to tell them straight what we want from them.
2006-11-14 20:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by River Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him frankly whats in ur mind. if he really loves u he'll understand
2006-11-14 20:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋