Theres this guy hes a friend of me and the girls at work. We get along very well we are like a team, we joke a lot all over us.One day i was in his neighbourhood visiting and l told when he came to the office so he said he was coming to see me at 9 in the evening and he came we went for a walk and he held my hand tried to stop him but he insisted and suddenly we were making love and it was beautiful we enjoyed the good time together after he took me home and we didnt have sex.There's a rumour that he has a girlfriend but every time we ask him he denies it and he doesnt want us to ask him about her.He pretends i think and the fun thing is i think am in love with him and when we are together we cant hold our feelings.We have not talked about it it's just that things just happen and we pretend all is well when we are with the others as a team.Hes is trapped i think cause he shows some interests in me but cant do anything cause of the girl. What can i do am in love with this guy help pliz
2006-11-14 20:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by caroline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and history repeats itself with a love triangle
2006-11-14 20:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to refuse sometime going out with him although your heart tells you not to do so but think of it sometimes.it would not be his lost in the end because he knows that at the end of the bridge somebody will wait for him. give him a space and a time to think whoever is in his heart. try also to emphatize the emotion of the girl if you were on her side. What would you feel?
2006-11-15 04:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by ryvinz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... Im not sure if your drunk, high or just really dont know how to put together a sentence correctly. I barely understood anything you were saying. My suggestion: Delete this question, sober up, and write it again so that maybe other people can understand you!
2006-11-15 04:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Heather K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly not all of that was decipherable (ie did you have sex or didn't you?). But either way, there's nothing you should be doing expect playing hard to get, bc the ball is in his court. Nothing is stopping him from dumping her...if he wants to...
2006-11-15 04:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how he is trapped. If he loves you as much as you think he does he should be able to tell her it's over. You need to talk to him and find out where you truely stand.
2006-11-15 04:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by polara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to like. If this guy is sleeping around he may
have some diseases you wouldn't want to get or you could get
pregnant.
2006-11-15 04:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out flat whats going on, tell him you like him and you dont wanna play games, that wether he has got a girl or not you wont wait for long.
2006-11-15 04:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by its blitz in uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what a predicament....how old r u guyz? i would really find out if hes got a woman 1st-what if hes married or something....& if u got pregnant & he didnt leave the wife...you'd b alone & MAN-what a mess...good luck!!
2006-11-15 04:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by anjL_iiiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl,you gotta TELL HIM THE TRUTH!
just say what you feel about him:)
just say:hey,i have liked you for a long time and i was woundering if you liked me too?
something like that..
2006-11-15 04:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by rachel t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drectly u ask him about this and make u clear
2006-11-15 04:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋