is there any way i can go near this girl without going into a complete stupor?
i really love her but i'm too stupid to do anything
2006-11-14 20:13:27 · 14 answers · asked by Gordonsnan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha ha! That is so sweet! Do you realize that every girl secretly wants to be told that she knocks the socks off a guy? Write her a love letter and stick it in her mailbox with a flower or on her desk or something. Yes, it could fall into the wrong hands, but more than likely just female hands. They will all think you're the greatest.
2006-11-14 20:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am really shy too, but most women can get away with it a bit easier. Do you have trouble speaking to women you are not attracted to? I find that I just end up having relationships with people that I am not initially sexually attracted to, because I cannot get close to those that I do find attractive, because I get too nervous. Take the pressure off by getting to know other women, perhaps you will find that you are compatible with one of them, or work up the courage to speak to this girl you already know you want to date.
Also, humor helps, maybe you could watch a lot of comedy and try that out on your friends to get comfortable with it first.
Or, when you ask her out, choose a date that will not require you to be too creative about entertaining her, don't go see a film, but maybe there is a specific, all involving activity you could invite her, that requires little down time: ie, a concert, (too loud to talk a lot) or dancing...Good luck!!!
2006-11-14 20:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by vigidis_spinning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Social Anxiety And Shyness Cure : http://tinyurl.com/nXNnRZIWSq
2015-09-25 17:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real cure "per se". So what you should do is learn to be out going and spontaneous. Good Luck.
2006-11-14 20:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart,,think confident thoughts,,or maybe,,just think that she likes you back,and she's waiting for you to come to her,will do.moreover try to befriend her friends first,,then when the right time comes,you will find yourself getting closer and closer to your goal,as you know her better and better,you will find out if she's reallly the girl of your dreams
2006-11-14 20:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Diet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cure Social Anxiety Shyness - http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?wGoF
2016-06-21 22:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Alberta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try. Slowly your shyness will go away. all of us feel shy in the beginning.
2006-11-14 20:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to love yourself and accknowledge what you have to offer. then be proud of it and the shyness will go away
2006-11-14 20:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by rockin6d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence books
2006-11-14 20:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by GOAL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, there! nothing to be shy about. if you're tongue-tied, write her a note asking her out for a date or something... be confident. if you face a rejection it's ok--nothing is wrong with you :) try to converse with her whether you feel awkward or not... find out what she likes to talk/do and ask her out. gd luck :)
2006-11-14 20:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋