I am having financial crisis that even my family needed my support. I've been working but seriously still not enough to provide a good living for even myself.
I have a girlfriend with me and I love her so much and showed me her love within our 3 years of relationship. A year ago, I met this another girl from California and we got interested to each other. Short to say that she can provide all things i needed to have a good start if I get married to her. I'm being confused or being forced to choose between love versus career.
Some of my friends say "You can find money but its hard to find a real love" and some say, " Love can wait but opportunity knocks on you once only". I just don't know what to prioritize as I'm feeling guilty of hurting the one i love, it really feels sucks! Whom should i choose? Any advice?
2006-11-14 20:03:12 · 17 answers · asked by Johntrix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOVE!!!!! Money is only that......it comes and goes....who will you have to share it with?
2006-11-14 20:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Hello!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say that you love your girlfriend, but yet you have cheated on her, so surely you don't love her that much. Yeah it's very nice to have money, but what's the point to having lots of money and being with a person that you know isn't right for you just for the sake of it. Take away her money do you think that you'd still like her and want to be with her, if the answer is no, there you have.
Another way of looking at it is if you marry the girl with the money, because you don't love her there's nothing to stop you cheating on her.
On the other hand if you current love finds out that you have cheated on her, and dumps you well then that makes it easy for you. However if you truly love her and she loves you, the two of you could work things out and together build a great life and make your money together, which surely would be a good thing
2006-11-15 04:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, listen to your heart. Money isn't everything. It may seem good at the time but you might be caught in a relationship that you'll regret. You can build a much closer, loving relationship if both work together and provide for each other. You will appreciate one another alot more.
2006-11-15 04:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people will tell you to go with the one you love and I'll tell you the same. I think that you know you should too. It's just that you might want justification to do the thing that is unpopular (become a gigalo). It's like choosing the girl with the hot body over the girl with the great personality. It's love versus lust. Love conquers all. Choose love, man.
2006-11-15 04:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Young Glory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are matters of the heart. You love the girl and loved for 3 years. Go with your first love because she will stand by you weather you make it or not the new girl may be good for your career but if any of her money is lost you will also loose her
2006-11-15 04:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you need to realise that your problem is not love versus career. Nobody ever said that it would have to be either or. we all have our careers to tend to while we are also involved in our love relationships. You also have another problem choosing between 2 girls.. I think you need to solve that problem out carefully because you are being unfaithful & must choose 1 of them fast. You cant have both sides of your bread buttered.
Being responsible is tough, deal with it!
2006-11-15 04:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask yourself if your willing to give up love for money.. i think you should stay with the girl whom youve been seeing fro three years. you may not see it this way but i think the reason your attracted to the other girl is because she can provide for you thats what your interested in and obviously if your having financial difficulties then ofcourse you may feel this towards her. but love is unquestionable and i think being with the other girl wont make you happy. dont give up the true love you have with girl number 1... or you'll regret picking th other girl over her.
2006-11-15 04:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should choose the one that you really love. you can get a second job to make more money. don't leave the one you love for another because she have money. money can't buy love. if you choose the one with money on down the road you will hate that you let go the one that you really loved. good luck
2006-11-15 04:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one u love..she's been with u for the last 3 years and she really supports u at ur worst condition. if u choose career, what if that girl get bored with u??
2006-11-15 04:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by fr4ng1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you love, money comes and goes, but if you find true love that will never leave you.
There are other jobs out there, but one girl for you.
2006-11-15 04:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go after money, the easy way out, you're being superficial. and you'ld hurt your love, which means you didn't mean anything when you told her you loved her. you certainly are in a difficult position and sure it's tempting to go after money, but LOVE always prevails.
now it's up to you to decide... be wise... :)
2006-11-15 04:17:07 · answer #11 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋