After a few dates, she gave me a really intimate and fantastic kiss, followed by another intimate one. But then I learn that she is just dating around and kissing other guys too. Should I continue dating her? I really like her. Any advice is appreciated!
2006-11-14 20:01:55 · 18 answers · asked by beloved2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay! Where you expecting something from her before you were even involved. Let's see did she tell you, right off the bat, that she was single and was not involved with anyone else. Okay if so, then some how you were expecting that you would be the better man. Somehow I do not think that is the case here. You believed her to be totally into you, so her kisses were yeah,good, Like the bomb. But then you find out (and how did you find out exactly) and now you are wondering if you should stop seeing her
Okay it already sounds to me and this is just my opinion on the matter, I believe that you have a trust as well as insecurity issues concerning her already in this very new relationship. Okay so she has only kissed you, what like only twice now and you want to what? Willow in self doubt or can you ever trust her enough to give her a fair chance at your heart.
2006-11-14 20:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's dating and kissing other guys while yall are together, than if I were you I wouldn't put up with that. Not many people deserve to be treated like that (and the reason I say not many is because i've met a few that do.) But if she's not while yall are dating, and you two care about each other, no reason to stop.
2006-11-14 20:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by gpdw1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is entirely up to you. Can you handle knowing you are not the only guy she is seeing ? If that doesn't bother you l say go for it and have fun. The fact that you say you really like her is a worry though as you could get hurt. I would suggest you tell her that you would like to have a relationship with her, meaning that she stops seeing anyone else and only dates you. See what she says and you will know if she is also keen. If she doesn't agree l would suggest you move on.Good luck.
2006-11-14 20:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because all she is doing is testing the waters. How else would one find the perfect mate if they don't date different personalities. As long as she isn't sleeping with everyone, why not continue to see her. What you wanting to marry her or something??? Think about it. You may just try to find out if you are done dating and looking to settle down. Bring it to the next level with her, but don't be surprised if she isn't ready.
2006-11-14 20:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not about u should or should not continue dating her. It's whether u like her or not. And whether u can accept her being intimate with so many guys... Sorry to say dat girl is not serious about love
2006-11-14 20:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by libby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a bit older and I have to tell you that a don't relish the thought of kissing a run-around-type of girl today for sanitary reasons, if nothing else. The human race has descended pretty significantly and I don't like mingling with the saliva of someone who's been with every who-knows-who.
Not to mention that she seems really flighty.
2006-11-14 20:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably best not to get tangled up in it. Seems like if she found someone else, she'd move on without thinking it through. I'd say stay away personally. But up to you. Depends whether you are willing to potentially suffer her leaving. You know?
2006-11-14 20:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tom C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends,,if your not serious to have a relationship with her then continue seeing her,,enjoy the kiss,maybe if your good enough,you can get into her pants,,however if your into serious relationship,,ask if she can get serious with you too,,if not ,,then by all means,,stop seeing her,,you would only bring a nail in your head,,
2006-11-14 20:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Diet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm under the impression you're not serious about this broad. If not, kick her @ss to the curb like yesterday's trash. If I'm wrong, be a man and put her in check.
2006-11-14 20:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Date her if you like her; that's up to you. She doesn't owe you anything. And you could always see if she's interested in committing...though it sounds like no.
P.S.-Girls who call other girls whores have something wrong with them...
2006-11-14 20:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋