It is really irritating albeit my boyfriend handles it as well as he can. But I am getting sick of it. Any inventive solutions out there?!
2006-11-14 20:01:29 · 39 answers · asked by Saucy B 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes you just have to tell people straight
both you and you boyfriend should tell her to back off !!!
2006-11-14 20:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♥gigi♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this once i understand exactly how your feeling!!men do love the attention but if it was the other way around he wouldn't stand for it so why should we!!put your foot down girl don't let that LITTLE GIRL WALK ALL OVER YOU!Stand your ground explain to your boyfriend that hes playing along with her and its doing your head in then threaten her. if she dose it again then kick her *** that should make her see that hes your man.Talking can work but some people out there don't no the meaning of reasoning.
2006-11-14 21:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be affectionate with him when she is doing it. Sit on his knee and cuddle up to him in a way so she can see how happy he is with you.
You could always send her flowers or something from a mystery man (make up a name) and get them sent to her in front of you guys.
Alternatively you could also set her up with someone and go on a double date. If it's going well or not, make your excuses and leave!
Try and let her down gently, she may not even realise how obvious she is and confronting her may make the situation worse and make her feel terrible. If she's a decent person, she'll understand, if that doesn't get through to her then I agree with the first answer ....
Good Luck.
2006-11-14 20:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time this happens get your boyfriend to turn away, his chair if sat down also, so it is a purposeful display of his desregard for her. And tell him to keep doing this every time she approaches. If you really want to piss her off, smile at her and be friendly. This way she will get the message and it will wind her up no end to see that you are not bothered by this one little bit.
2006-11-14 20:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the joke on her, let your boyfirend reel her in then when it comes to the crunch catch him almost in the act and go absolutly nuts at both of them, then when the predator becomes the pray let your boyfriend turn on her as well saying that he never had interest in her EVER and just wanted to let her know that she is a slag
or even better you could make a pass at her yourself and say youd love a 3 way, bet shed shrivel at that suggestion
2006-11-14 20:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by poli_b2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be really, really smug around her...
After all, you're the one who ends up in bed with him at the end of the night!
My boyf has a female friend exactly like this and nothing winds her up more, than when I let her get on with it, I ignore her and don't hover around. Every now and then i saunter over and kiss him- making him focus all of his attention on me- I also find this works particularly well, because my boyf is constantly looking for where I am and not giving her his complete attention!
2006-11-14 21:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Coley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be good if you and your boyfriend ( show you are a strong couple) tell her bluntly that her behaviour is unacceptable and a waste of time.
If you are calm and diplomatic about it you will embarass the life out of her especially if it comes from both of you!!!
Regardless of the outcome I don't really think she is much of a friend so maybe you should consider seeing less of her,when it comes to mates quality is better than quantity!
2006-11-14 20:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time stand up and shout, "watch out girls SHE's at it again". Do the same every time changing it to "Hold on to your men Girls" or "Slap happy is here again" Be sarcastic offer to hire out you boyfriend if she really can't hold a man down. You could slap her, I did this to my rival, was embarrassed but still felt good.
2006-11-14 20:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you both go to see her, and get him to explain firmly, but kindly that he is with you, and not interested in her. Be sympathetic towards her. Hopefully this will make her realise what a fool she has been making of herself.
Try not to be angry with her. If you want to go out with a good looking guy you will have to get used to it. Just be happy that he is yours!
2006-11-14 20:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all those times, I would probably just risk getting my @ss beat and punch that b1tch. Gotta stand up for what you believe in...People should learn respect!
My ghetto answer of the day.
2006-11-14 20:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she could have him for a night for a tenner! I'm not the jealous type! I wouldn't lower myself into doing anythin. Have enough confidence that he can handle it. Just laugh at her!
2006-11-15 01:06:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋