PLEESE HELP ME IM TRYIN 2 GET MY GF BAK SHE SAYD I HAD SOM BAD HABITS N SAYD SHE WANTED 2 GO ON A BRAKE THEN SAYD SHE WANTED 2 SEE OTHR PEEPLE BUT B4 THAT SAYD I WOUD GET A CHANSE 2 PROOVE 2 HER IF I CAN CHANGE SHE TOOK THAT CHANSE AWAY CAS 1 OF HER FRENDS SAY GUYZ CANT CHANGE SO PLEESE HELP ME PROVE 2 HER I CAN CHANGE I LOVE HER N M WILLING 2 FIGHT 4 HER 4EVER PLEESE HELP ME
ITS ALL IN MY ?S IN MY PROFILE \
PLEESE HELP ME I LOVE HER SO MUCH IT HURTS 2 NOT BE WIT HER I NEED HER BAK HELP ME B A BETTR PERSON PLEESE
i will fight for her cas i love her mor than anyting n dont wanna loose her
2006-11-14 19:25:49 · 13 answers · asked by scott_groen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is homscooled i m not
2006-11-14 19:41:21 · update #1
try to find whats wrong with you first.do u cus?do u talk about girls bodies?then once you fix your self sit at a table next to hers at lunch and talk to your friends as your new self.
2006-11-14 19:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by chelsburger10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 Stop typing in ALL CAPS! It is annoying and hard to read.
You have to start working on whatever issues caused you to break up. Sit down and look at your problems and think about what you can do to avoid them in the future. It's really hard to prove to someone that you've changed if you haven't. Take positive action to improve yourself and to grow as an individual. Try replacing your bad habits with new ones. It takes 21 days to make a new habit and about 6 months for it to really become part of your personality. Don't focus on not doing what you were doing, but focus on the new habits you want to build.
And don't go running back to her and try and convince her that you've changed. Your actions will speak more persuasively than anything you could say to her. Good Luck!
2006-11-15 03:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, you shouldn't have typed in caps and you should have typed in proper english so we can all help you...
second, i have a suggestion for you. make a date with her and since you are so sure you want this to work out, ask her to give you a time frame to prove yourself. of course you can tell whether she likes you enough or not if she is reasonable... and, did she mention to you your bad habits before and you ignored it? (if you did, you gotta be serious and assure her that during the time frame she gives you, you'll work on changing your bad habits--but let her know everyone has bad habits, even her; and breaking a bad habit is pretty tough) if she didn't inform you and just suddenly wanted to break off, she's just finding an excuse.
well, i just want to add one more thing. PLS have self-confidence and know when to draw the line. if she treats you like sh*t, you know that she won't forgive you ever. so back off and wait for another gal. you sound like a gd guy now, perhaps last time you weren't. learn from your mistakes and you'll get a great gf with time.
2006-11-15 03:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but if your gf truly loved you she wouldn't ask you to change, she would accept you for who you are. I can understand her point of view on the cheating....you get your heart broken a couple times it's easy to develop trust issues. This is something she is going to have to work out for herself.
My suggestion is tell her you would like to just be friends for now, and see where it goes. Others have said it because it's true....actions speak louder than words. Be her friend and don't push to get back together. If it was meant to be for you two, it will happen. Good luck!
2006-11-16 23:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mary L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if love someone then you love them & look past their bad habits. You never try to change someone because that never works. You are you & she either loves you for you or she dosen't. You should not have to change to have her come back to you. It sounds to me like she is not really in love with you and just wants to go see what other fish are in the sea. Sorry. Take care
2006-11-15 03:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her let her walk away.. Give it some time,and give yourself some time..Are your ways so bad that they drove her away?? She said she wants to see other people and she has to break your heart to do so..I really don't think any change you could make is going to change her mind, she sounds manipulative and wants to see what you are willing to do for her..It would be best for you to walk away strong and straight and leave her wondering how you did it..Don't let her see you hurt..
2006-11-15 03:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like her a little more then she likes you, its part of life, you sound like a decent guy, you`ll find someone good if it doesn`t work out and whatever you are doing that you have to change, do it!
2006-11-15 03:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by airpolicejohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would try & CHANGE first AND show her i changed -then if she don't take u back that wasn't the real reason she broke up n the 1st place & i would move on-esp. if she is listening 2 her friends over u...
2006-11-15 03:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by anjL_iiiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good place to start is to educate yourself--please get a dictionary and learn how to spell or use spell checker! Can't read your writing!
2006-11-15 03:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
change your habits first boy and maybe next time you have better luck
2006-11-15 03:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋