I need some advice on not being so nervous about having sex for the first time...im not some little kid or anything and i do know alot about it but how do i get over the fact that i might just suck? also is it bad to feel like you should know what your doing even alittle bit?
2006-11-14 19:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by nadia R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being nervous is just a part of life. if its your first time what else can the other person expect. don't worry about being nervous and it will kind of just come to you as you go along you'll get the rhythm of it as long as the other person knows what they are doing. i don't think you should know too much cause the person may not believe that you are a virgin if you seem too experienced. keep that in mind. but make sure you're ready cause this is something you can't get back.
2006-11-14 19:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by chrisarea_99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax! When it is the right time & the right person you WON'T feel so nervous. If this is just something you want to do because everyone else is, then DON'T do it.
Be honest with your partner, let him know that it is your first time & he will HOPEFULLY take it slow & easy. He will IF he loves you.
Having sex is NOT something you can learn from a book. Techniques, yes, but not the emotions. Trust me, the first time will be better IF you & your partner share the same feelings for one another. If it is just a jump & run, it may turn out to be a bad experience for you.
Just remember, ONLY do it when YOU are ready & when it is right for YOU. Do NOT let ANYONE pressure you. There is NOTHING wrong with waiting.....
2006-11-14 19:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax, youngster. It'll be ok. Just remember this---making love is a three part program. There's the before, the during and the after. The before is the foreplay--holding, fondleing, kissing, etc. The during is obvious, The after is, again, the holding and the cuddling. What's important to remember is that each of the three is every bit as important and joyful as the other two. To neglect any one of the steps is to miss out on a totally wonderful experience.
2006-11-14 19:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think of it as driving a car. You can read all the books in the world, watch movies until you go blind, but until you actually get behind the wheel, you'll never really know how to drive. Everyone has to go through this, and most of us make out okay after a few disasters. Just relax and try to have fun. Pretty soon it'll be second nature.
2006-11-14 19:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-22 03:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by shine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're putting too much pressure on yourself. Even if you're experienced sometimes the first time w/ that person can suck. If it's the right person you wouldn't feel so nervous because they will make you feel comfortable.
2006-11-14 19:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first up no one knows what they are doing the first time round.
secondly it's not worth doing it at all unless it's with someone that you reallllllly wanna be with, then if you are both excited about the idea you will find that a lot of stuff comes naturally.
wait for the first to be with someone that you know can be patient .
2006-11-14 19:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by sandiemay01 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol... if it's on yer wedding nite, EVERYTHING will be fine... there's nothin to be nervous about... but let's say it's not yer wedding nite... PLZ be careful... condoms is a NEED and if u going to have sex b4 yer wedding nite, plz think twice bout it... r u going to regret and stuff? is she/he gonna be the one u can live the rest of yer lives with? is this the rite person to give yer body to?
hope i help...
2006-11-14 19:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, take it from "Tri-pod", start it off by going m u f f diving.
2006-11-14 19:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok
2006-11-14 19:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋