there is a girl i have been talking to through e-mail. i am just getting out of a relationship and we don't know each other well so we decided to take it slowly. she said in time she can tell me if she likes me too. but now she says that she sorta likes someone else and thinks they might like her to. so i'm really confused and don't want to get too invested but i don't want to not try at all. so what should i do? getting over her will not be easy. she is the most beautiful girl i've seen and i really like her mind and heart.
we have talked in person about 5 or 6 times around campus
2006-11-14 18:12:29 · 7 answers · asked by the w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Protect yourself. If you make yourself too available for her she will most likely use you and not consider how you feel. The only way to not get too invested is to stop emailing her.
2006-11-14 18:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make it clear to her that you really like her and all. And that, you might be ready to start a new relationship. But, if you respect her, I mean she does kind of like someone else, I think you should let that happen at the same time show to her that you can compete with this guy for her. She'll be touched and all and I'm sure she likes you a bit if not more since you guys are communicating through e-mail. At the very least, continue to be a good friend.
2006-11-15 02:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience I would advise you to just be yourself and honest. Face this fact would you want to keep her from something she really wanted to please you? no, So be her friend and still care for her as much as she lets you.Its better than not having her at all. And it will help you in the long run understand that we men always want what we cant have. You cant make her feel like you feel fro her. But you can show her how a good friend can care for her inner needs and just maybe things will work out for the both of you.
2006-11-15 02:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by welchreginald 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many hearts are broken almost all the time,be comforted with the idea that you are not alone,millions and billions suffer from heartache, i know its a cliche but its the only thing you can do to set her free, most people think that in order to love someone else you must have to be with them, but reality is she likes someone else, set her free.,let her be, dont try to make it you own way, let her realize, if she is not yours she is not yours, let her be with someone she likes and love, if you set her free youve shown her the real meaning of love , and that is sacrifice, love is patient, love is kind,
and before letting her go, just let her know what you feel perhaps through your email or a letter, tell her all about what you feel atleast youve tried
then afterwards find something and think of something rewarding to do, try another hobby to keep her off your mind
2006-11-15 02:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giver her space. Girls do not like pushy guys. I am sure that she will come around and will let you know. just do not be "sloppy" seconds. dont let her be like some girls who are like "well since he does not like me, i will see you" not fair to you at all
2006-11-15 02:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do about it if she has change her mind, so I will advise you like elsewhere.
2006-11-15 02:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that
2006-11-15 02:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋