Why cant i get a girl who likes me? im a nice guy, who is pretty good looking. im very nice and approachable. i was turned down twice lasty week by girls i liked and all the girls i like seem to say no when i ask them. HELP!
2006-11-14 16:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by cschultz66701 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget all the answers. It's because girls are stupid until about the age of 25 (maybe later). I don't know what happens after that as I am only 27, but I can tell you that a good guy is all I want now. When I was 18-24, not so much, the bad boy thing intrigued me, but bad boys tend to be bad boys forever and girls don't want that.
Don't worry, sweetheart, your time is coming and you're going to get the girl all the other guys wish they had (even if they won't admit it).
2006-11-14 16:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by stellar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up and talk to People.
It sounds like you're intelligent enough to hold a conversation, right? Provide the opportunity for the Girl of the species to initiate the courtship rituals, and don't be afraid to laugh at her corny efforts.
You'll get a feel for who's playing, and who's serious.
But if you go all "cold fish" all the time, you'll end up alone on a lot of evenings.
But above all dump the idea, cuz you'll just get hurt more than it's worth...
2006-11-15 00:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cluckin Bell Worker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have jumped a major hurdle that I haven't. I've never been turned down, because I will never ask out a girl until I'm 150% sure. Big handicap.
Anyhow, make it your mission to get turned down twice a week. I guarantee you will have a girlfriend way before me.
2006-11-15 00:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two ways to approach this:
1) Ask your guy friends who are popular how they approach
and attract girls.
2) Ask the girls why they have rejected you. What they
suggest to improve your chances. And what they look for in a
guy.
This should result in many pieces of good advise. Good luck.
2006-11-15 01:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are putting yourself out there too much. You asked two girls out in one week, wow, tells me and everyone else how fast you get over one. You seem like you just want a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend and we sense that. Try to get to know a girl first really.
2006-11-15 00:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, be witty, be passionate, but above all, be yourself and you should be able to attract many women. just don't push too hard or seem desperate. by the way, someone above put "are you a nerd or a geek?". i'm at the top of my class in every class at my university and i attract tons and tons of women =D. women love intelligence along with power (the ability to influence others), money, looks, personality, class, everything!
2006-11-15 00:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they do not want a relationship with a guy they don't know too well. Also, they probably think your desperate. 2 girls in one week? Wow. Patience, buddy. It's all about timing.
2006-11-15 00:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more confident! the way to get girls is simple...if they think you like them they're gonna make you work for it, if they reject you and you shake it off but keep trying you might get em...you also might get a slap in the face tho...i know ive felt it lol...but no matter what just keep tryin at those girls you like man...and do not DO NOT hop around from one girl to another telling each one how much you like em....gossip spreads reeeeal fast
2006-11-15 00:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be hard on yourself and don't try to hard and maybe try to talk/flirt with them for a while before you ask them out.
2006-11-15 01:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by lost for words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is because you are actually gay and the girls know it so they don't waste their time. Maybe lower your expectations and see how you go!
2006-11-15 00:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋