I am not happy with my marraig and I want a divorce but I fear the lonlyness and start a new relationship all over again.I am 33
2006-11-14 16:49:07 · 6 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't advise you. Think about your reasons for not being happy with your marriage. Are they things you can fix? Talk to your spouse about your feelings.
2006-11-14 16:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write down the pros and the cons. Figure out what kind of financial situation you are in now and look at how much it will cost for divorce. Can you work it out? If you invested a lot of time and there are kids involved think carefully, but remember it is important both to show each other respect in front of the kids.
Another thing... 33 is young, don't feel hopeless. best of luck to you.
2006-11-15 00:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by cruisingalong 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is really sad to hear. No one can tell you anything. No friend, family member, or councler. If you do not feel that feeling when you kiss her, or smile the second you see her, get goosebumps when she tells you she loves you then maybe the love has faded. You might be able to get it back though. You have to figure out why you want the divorice if it is really worth the lonliness because there will be alot of it. If you think it is the right thing to do though, your friends and family will come through for you and help you out. If she isn't the right one then i believe everything happens for a reason and you will find that girl that we all look for. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-15 01:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all unless he is abusing you, i would try marriage counseling. if that does not work than get a divorce. 33 is young. go out and met some friends, join a club, take up a new hobby. maybe you than can met a man who shares those interest with you. its better than being in a bad marriage.
2006-11-15 00:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see a marriage counsellor and if your still not happy get divorced and do everyone a favor.
If you weren't in love in the first place you never should have gotten married.
If you were then maybe some counselling will help you.
2006-11-15 00:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by laredokid22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seperate! look around,clubs,friends always have friends looking for dates! You only live once! Make it the best that you can!!!!
2006-11-15 01:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋