this boy keeps toying with my emotions and i let him. i cant help myself but he keeps bringing me to a high and then knocking me down so low. this time was supposed to be different. i finally trusted him and lied to myself about him. its just when hes nice hes perfect...anyways whats the least painful way to end my life?
i tried wording that nicely. instead of reporting me please give me some advice. thanks
2006-11-14 15:09:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calm down,
suicide is a permenate solution for a temporary situation
thigns will blow over
youll meet a great new guy who willbe a gentleman to you
and you willlook back at this and laugh
trust em,jsut do not harm yourself
you dont knwo how many peopples lives you are affecting by just simply being alive
2006-11-14 15:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by bionca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this can be really painful, the same thing has happened to me before. But please dont end your life, hes not worth it. And hes not worth having your love and attention. But somebody, though you might not have found him yet, is worth having all your love and attention and your worth having the love and attention of a real man. And please dont let this guy do this to you again. I know its hard, I let a man do the same thing to me and I thought I'd never feel better about myself ever again but once I stopped letting him treat me like that, I felt so much better about myself and stronger without him and realized that I deserved the love that he never gave me. And I still havent found the one yet either, but I know now that I do deserve more love than what he gave me. And I dont know if you're religious or not, but if you are, please pray about this. Dont end your life over this guy. I hope all of this helps you and try to keep your head up and keep going. I wish you all the luck in the world.
2006-11-15 01:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no man-boy-whatever-is worth ending your life over. I was in the same situation for almost 3 years. I let him walk all over me. Then i met someone-who showed me what love really means. We've been together for 6 years & have 2 kids. When you let a guy treat u like that, u lose track of who u really are, and what u really need. if he's not what you need all the time-only when he's nice-then u need to take some time for yourself to realize that u deserve someone who Wants to make u happy All the time-not just when it's convenient for them. before u think about ending your life-push this dude to the back of your head & ask yourself, what about the ppl in my life that really do care about me? what will ending my life do to them?
2006-11-14 23:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by stazia81 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's an abuser. He knows your buttons and when to push them to get his kicks. RUN, do not walk, away from him now and learn from this experience, or you will ALWAYS fall for someone who abuses you.
Abusers know how to cajole you and know how to probe for weak spots.
"Emotional abusers are very insidious - some of them are much harder to spot than others, because they mingle their abuse in between acts of generosity, and often employ emotionally manipulative tactics, and passive-aggressive behavior. Not all emotional abusers overtly belittle and verbally harangue their partners - some are much more perfidious and as such, their partners may not realize that the source of their distress and an unease over the relationship has been coming from abuse for quite some time. The longer a woman remains under the grip of an emotional abuser, the more she will start to question herself, her actions and her beliefs. It is the abuser's goal to make her believe that she deserves his cruelty and that only through her actions can she make it stop. It is his intent to get her to feel that she is the cause of any relationship problems, and that his (abusive) behavior is simply a response to her, and therefore acceptable. It is true, that only through her actions can she make it stop - she must have the courage to leave the relationship and avoid further contact with the abuser."
2006-11-14 23:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by yetanothergwm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to kill yourself over a boy, don't do it please. boys are no excuse for ending a perfectly good life! I'm sure you don't realize how selfish you are for doing this. Your family loves you more than you could ever know and I don't even know you I if you kill yourself I would probably cry, not that I will ever know how you seal with this. But please think of the rest of the life you would miss! your future or current children your mom your dad, You would ruin their lives and I'm sure if you could see them after something like that happened you would never forgive yourself! Imagine your own child finishing it's life for a broken relationship. Don't kill yourself you are worth so much more than letting that boy think he's got the better of you. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, unless you'd rather submit to your emotional challenges keep on living your life.
2006-11-14 23:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Another person cannot value your life.
If you find more confusion than enjoyment in this relationship - you really do not have one.
He has learned to control you by his actions and has learned to play you by what he needs.
This is a dangerous pattern and not what God has intended for your life.
You deserve someone who values you and all there is about you.....God loves you - as no other can.
Please do not waste nor end your life over someone who does not even value it when there is so much to offer!
You are one of a kind and worthy of all the love available to you!
2006-11-14 23:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Marsha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember, through every harsh winter, their is a spring and summer waiting for you. Even if life's hights are what you want, you can only get there by going through some lows
The daylight will only come if you can survive through the dark night
Good things may not be there for you now, but it doesnt mean that they may stay that way foreever,
2006-11-15 11:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easier for who? You let him abuse you, so you want to end your life and make everyone who does love you suffer?
There is no painless way to end your life. And he is not worth it anyway.
Tell him to take a flying leap, refuse his calls, don't talk to him, don't look at him, forget him.
There are nice young men out there, find someone who appreciates a nice young woman and respects you.
Don't let him steal the most valuable thing you have, Your Life.
2006-11-14 23:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by rainbows_for_you2003 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Please do not let anyone have that much power over you. Suicide is a selfish act--it may stop your pain, which will lessen with time anyway, but it will devastate your family. Consider seeing a counselor and talk to your parents about how bad you are feeling.
2006-11-14 23:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really hope your not serious... I have been in the same situation you have and I know how painful it can be believe me I KNOW!!! The situation I was in that caused me to feel some of the worst pain I have ever felt...even caused me to have an anxiety attack...but it is not worth ending your life my dear...trust me! It was hard and long, but I got over it and everything is fine just like it will be for you....I actually ended up meeting the love of my life from that situation..Alot of times in a bad situation something good comes from it...don't miss out on the good part! please please please its not worth it..if you need someone to talk to feel free to email me.
2006-11-14 23:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by thereis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋