so you know how they say if you love something you got to let it free, if it comes back to you, its yours.
well i just dropped my gf some weeks ago..it still hurts like crap because the only reason i dropped her was bcuz she's not serious and she wanted to mess around i guess..im not going to try to get her back.. im a nice guy i guess.i devoted most of my time on her.. do u think eventually she'll see that what she had was beter than any guy rite now? cuz all those guys just wana get in her pants.
has any of you gotten back with your ex after they found out they actually needed you? just wondering =)
2006-11-14 15:07:58 · 7 answers · asked by itstony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx guys.im not sayin ima try to get her back..ima let time take its place rite now..im just seeing if miracles like that do happen tho.. lol
2006-11-14 15:18:03 · update #1
Give her time, if she's the right one for you she'll be back. It sounds like your both young and maybe need some time to experiment, but you seem to have your head on straight so just stay the way you are, she will realise later what she had.
2006-11-14 15:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a gf that was foolin around on me come back because I didnt want them back but I have gotten back with several of my old gf. The last one I got back together with saddly goes to school 18 hrs from me but we still talk once in a while when we can find the time and to be honest I am very happy that we still at least talk. So it all really depends on her. She may not be mature enough to come back and if this is so then you are better off without her. I hope she is mature enough to go back to you. I wish you luck and keep being a nice guy.
2006-11-14 23:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You are 100% correct by saying that if you love something set it free, If it comes back then you know it is yours. However, Do not keep yourself waiting in anticipation for her to come back! At the same time, Do not just give up all hope! Meet other girls, Date other girls if you really want to, But if she does want you back, Just think really hard as to why she wants you back.
You say that she plays around with other guys, If i were you, Id give a bit of time before doing anything again. It sounds like she needs to mature a bit.
Think things through very carefuly! Im in the same scenario as you, My girlfriend broke up with me to get back with her ex, But i know he will hurt her in the end. He did it before, He will do it again. So just think things through please.
2006-11-14 23:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_k006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, when it is over, let it go and move on. Save yourself the pain of getting back together and breaking up over and over again. It is just torture.
2006-11-14 23:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by J S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, couple of times. Sometimes when girls want to get back, I give them a chance. But once they **** up its over. That happens many times when they realize once your gone, they will come running to you.
2006-11-14 23:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get over her....i have a friend with this same problem...u see he loves his gf but she is really mean to him so he dumped her and they got back together but she was te same...so she wont change so i say forget about her
2006-11-14 23:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by LaLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya she may come to you thy just don't know when thy have it good good luck to you
2006-11-14 23:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋