ok i've been going out with my girlfriend for almost a month and we make out a lot... and i'll accidentally touch her and stuff while making out and she says she doesn't care but i dont want her to feel uncomfortable. and i was thinking about 3rd base.. fingering.. oral sex etc. but i dont know when we should start this.. is it too early????
2006-11-14 15:07:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and when should i say i love her.. i know i kinda feel like i do but im sure u guys will say WHEN U FEEL IT and most people dont know.. i dont know if i've ever felt true love
2006-11-14 15:11:02 · update #1
i'm 17 and she is 15 ... i'm 1 year 5 months older than her
2006-11-14 15:14:18 · update #2
whoa buddy hold your penis there! =) I think it is too early. Maybe you should wait till like 3 months. Maybe things won't turn out the way you think it would. So just wait. Beside consider the consequences, if the parents find out, your gonna end up in prison for raping a minor, so just watch out. Its very unsafe for now.
2006-11-14 15:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only too early if you both feel it's too early. Or even if one of you feels it's too early.
by the sounds of it, she doesn't seem to mind your "accidental" touching. At a young age it can be embarrassing to ask straight out if she's okay with it. So, on your next makeout sesh, when things are going good, ask her then. However, in the heat of the moment she may just say yes anyways. If your comfortable to ask when there isn't any intamacy going on thats best. It saves both of you from doing something you may regret.
2006-11-14 15:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by Melton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think it's too early...you're doing the right thing by waiting. you should probably wait until you've been together 4 months before you get that far, but it depends on how old you are. if she's comfortable already you might want to ask yourself if you'll mind if you find out she's done a lot of stuff with a bunch of guys before you.
2006-11-14 15:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 12:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by capel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, its not too early. Try it next time if you two are in the mood. If your girl does not feel comfortable then she'll tell you to stop. No biggie
2006-11-14 15:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just too shy. It is not too soon if you have been fooling around anyway. The early bird gets the worm you dirty birdy!
2006-11-14 15:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by whyt gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam..this sound like my ex gf and this guy.you live in MA? wait a while..its only been a month takes time to develope trust.then move farther later on.
2006-11-14 15:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on both of you. If you think you're ready, good...if you think she's ready...good for you then. but make sure it is really ok first with yourself and then make sure if it is ok with her. but i don't know...i'm stilll in the v club...lol...hope this helps!
2006-11-14 15:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Marie Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why I don't date women! With men it is so much easier- Dinner, Movie, dessert at my place.
2006-11-14 15:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by J S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 19 I'd say no but if you like 13 then go read a f-ing bible
2006-11-14 15:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by *Shelby* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋