guys and girls i need advice! im 18 and never been kissed... what am i doing wrong?!!?

Question

i am 18 years old and i've never been kissed and never had a boyfriend. does it scare guys away now, that i don't have enough experience and im 18 years old already? im not ugly... i've been told many times that im pretty, and just the other day i heard two of my friend's guyfriends saying i was hot when they were in the other room. I dunno why.... maybe im not flirty enough. i looooovvvveee guys soooo much. i always get this weird feeling in my stomach and i get kinda nervous when im around guys i like. ughhhh i just don't know what to do. guys and girls can answer. thanks

Answer 1

I am 18. I am a male. I have never had a girlfriend. And I have never been kissed. There is nothing wrong. There have been plenty of times when I could have kissed someone, but chose not to. To me, I feel that I should wait for the right moment, the right person, as you always remember your first time, such as the first time you rode a bike, first time you tied your shoe laces, first day at school. It is something special, something that should mean something.
But that is my opinion.
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Answer 2

hey i m a guy but im also 18. look if you know inside that your beautiful, then show it. But my advice to you is to STOP looking for a guy. Cause from my experience in big schools, when you go around flirting, and you really looking for love, it will make you seem like a slut (no offense) even though you truelly arent. THIS is what attract guys who play the role of loving you, get thier sex-on, and say goodbye. Now, true love (if thats what your looking for) comes on its own. If you look for it, you'll spend your entire life searching.

Answer 3

Kissing someone your not going to marry is desensitizing. It's good for say, the economy, but not for your future happiness and the happiness of your spouse.

If you want your kisses to mean the most, you should fall in love first with a good man, and start a life together that is worthwhile.

Find a man that spends his life serving others in his spare time.

Use your date relationship time in a way that helps people so that you are working together for a good purpose and not focusing on self gratification.

If that works out and you enjoy each other enough to be married, then start kissing(making-out)after you are married. You will deserve it and enjoy it much more because it will mean so-much-more than a novelty.

Kissing someone your not for sure marrying is going to hurt you in the long run. You will be more desensitized to love and miserable because people need more than a novelty to retain happiness and true love.

Answer 4

Just relax and don't push the issue. You don't have to be aggressive to get what you want. Spend time with those who you may be interested in and just let things develop. I have many friends both men and women with similar situations, and once they just relaxed and let things happen they did. All but one of them are married now and in great relationships.

Answer 5

Maybe you are trying to hard. Then when the time comes you dont try hard enough. Have you even had a boyfriend? I think you just need to be with someone..and just be where the time is right and the mood is set. A kiss is just a kiss..dont be so domanant! A breath strip wont hurt either?

Answer 6

what you're doing wrong is ....not Beijing a $lut! guys deep down, don't like sluts, we just do them because its the shortest path to what we want. guys, that have patience, will appreciate you and what you do/ don't do and will take you home to stay!

Answer 7

"the harder you try, the more you will miss" Figure that quote out and apply it to your life. If you do not know just email me

Answer 8

you either have led a very sheltered life cause the folks want ya in a closet till your 30 or so,#1or maybe as you walk by people(guys) the flys are - a buzzin around ya, which case i say take
a bath & make sure you dousche ,,,#2 and maybe cause your lying to your self and are hearing what you want to hear because
your really butt fuc_ing ugly#3or maybe your just to damn shy to go out and socialize with your freinds and other peers, and thats what i think it really is ,,, not #1 #2or #3 go out and let people(guys get a shot at meeting you and let them get to know how sweet that you really are,,,,,,,if you dont get started right now your gonna have a long lonely life ahead of yourself, go get-em,,,,,,,
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Answer 9

Awww...I would kiss you