mk i dated this boy for 3 months we broke up and all then got back together. now he has broken up with me again after tellin me he made out with another gurl and told me he cheated on me with 6 others. i feel as though i gave him my heart and then he didnt give it back at all. the first time he said that it was over but still loved me. why do i keep falling for his stupid things. i no that he isnt worth crying over but i do. he said that he cheated cause i did it first and that he said that he didnt care. the time he broke up with me he was going to go out with an ex the 1 he made out with and told but then said he couldnt because he couldnt get me out of his mind. he lost his father at a young age at like 8. is it possible that he is pushing me away because he really does love me and doesnt want to get hurt? i think that he is lieing bout the other gurls but the one do i still hang on for the feelings i have or do i let go? plz no stupid answers and no rude comments on grammar
2006-11-14 14:59:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over it. if someone cheats on you they don't want you.
2006-11-14 15:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by la jirafa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right well it could be that he was hurt that you cheated on him.
He could just be saying that he has cheated on you to get back at you, because he may be able to tell that you have strong feelings for him and figured it would be a way of hurting you.
I'm sorry to hear that he lost his father at such a young age and he might just be realising the consequences this is having on him. If you really want him to know how you feel then talk to him or write him a letter telling him how you feel also say that whatever happens you hope you can still be friends.
If it is true that he cheated on you with other girls maybe you weren't meant to be, after all you say you cheated first. Also remember two wrongs don't make a right and if you ever do get back together you should both put the past behind you.
Good luck.
2006-11-14 15:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, either he's unfaithful or he is not ready for a relationship. If they do it once they'll do it again. Same goes if you are the other woman, how long will it be after you're together before there is a new other woman. We are creatures of habit and regardless of what anyone say we very rarely change....for long. Don't look for a serious relationship find people you enjoy being around and let things develop, the best relationships happen when you're not looking.
2006-11-14 15:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chad N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love just take it easy yes you may be right about him pushing you away, if you want try waiting for him giving him time , he has to first accept the fact that he feels that way towards you becaue his father left, normally at the end of the day you can't change people when the stakes are down they still are who they are.i would say you should move on, but you can try giving it a little time and see how it goes.
2006-11-14 21:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace your feelings always. Then figure out why you have the feelings you do for him. Sometimes it is not what you think it is, time will reveal what is good for you. Seek out great people to interact with, and be around. Take a free class, or volunteer to help improve who you are and realise you are a jewel made by God the Father. Yes you are be proud and lift your head. Who knows if your head is up you may meet great people who can improve your life.
Peace
Jay
2006-11-14 16:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a lost cause, weather he's cheating because he's scared of commitment or not. If he's treating you like this then he's not worth it. I think that when men really love the woman they're with, they have enough respect and emotion to not cheat. Ask any man, they'll tell you.
2006-11-14 16:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rhiannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey read your messgae. look, guys are complex. not as nearly as females, but on the same range of thought in a way. Personally, i think he's scared of falling in love with you. Knowing that he probaly didnt expect you to give your heart and soul to him. When a guy comes looking for love, honestly he doesnt expect it, for the simple fact that over 60% of females today think that every man is the same.
2006-11-14 15:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but there are alot with the same similarities. Don't make excuses for him and belittle your self by thinking this is the best you could do. Improve yourself and good men with naturally attract to you. We tend to attract what we put out and then wonder why we're not happy.
2006-11-14 15:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he doesn't know what he wants and he's confuse whether he loves you or not but make up your mind girl and move on with your life...it might be hard for you to get over him but be strong
2006-11-14 21:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"do not prioritize someone who only makes you an option."
i think you're still young... there are still many guys out there who'd deserve your love. even if he loves you truly, your relationship wouldn't be successful if he's immatured and insecure. you'll just end up getting hurt whatever effort you do to make up with him. don't waste your time. move on. love yourself. be confident. don't put your happiness in his hands.
2006-11-14 15:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by jzcurious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are usually very straightforward. Ask him what's going on and ask him the directin of your relationship. Make him tell you the truth because you deserve it. Talk it out with him...
2006-11-14 15:04:56 · answer #11 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋