i am 18 years old and i've never been kissed and never had a boyfriend. does it scare guys away now, that i don't have enough experience and im 18 years old already? im not ugly... i've been told many times that im pretty, and just the other day i heard two of my friend's guyfriends saying i was hot when they were in the other room. I dunno why.... maybe im not flirty enough. i looooovvvveee guys soooo much. i always get this weird feeling in my stomach and i get kinda nervous when im around guys i like. ughhhh i just don't know what to do. guys and girls can answer. thanks
2006-11-14 14:54:54 · 13 answers · asked by mayso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong. At least you're not one of those girls who kisses and throws herself at any guy with a pulse. I find it respectable that you don't do that. All you need to do is put yourself out there more. Let it be known that you are available but do it respectably. By no means do I mean to flirt like crazy and throw yourself at guys. That's not the right thing to do and from what it seems you're not that kind of girl. Just be available. Get to know some guys. Date. Don't be afraid! It's not as big of a deal as you think!
2006-11-14 15:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not doing anything wrong.
You'll kiss a guy when you're comfortable with it. Don't put so much pressure on yourself.
Not flirty enough? Bah! Just be yourself! You're fine the way you are, no matter what anyone else says.
And as for a boyfriend? Well, once you know a guy, and become best best best friends with him, he's boyfriend material. Anything less than that, and you're just jumping in too deep, too quickly.
2006-11-14 22:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by JediKnight 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself the way you are normally, if you get nervous things mess up and they think you are weird. try to overcome your fears, talk to guys as much as you can. you may experience problems at first but then you'll get used to it and then you'll be a real hotty and nothings wrong if you are not kissed even at 18 because sometimes the fruit of patience is sweeter
2006-11-14 23:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mimoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. im sorry to hear that. Perhaps you arent going after the right guyz. or like you said maybe you arent flirtatious enough. its good that you get that nervous feeling. it lets you know your normal. perhaps you should approach someone you know who thinks you are hot often times the best relationships are the ones that start based on friendship.
Email me i would love to talk to you and id be happy to give you advice if you ever need it. cschultz66701@yahoo.com
2006-11-14 23:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by cschultz66701 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very desireable. At 18 there's not a whole lot of girls who aren't complete s1uts. Your a good egg. There's nothing wrong with you, there's something wrong with the shameful way most woman act these days. Your better than most girls.
2006-11-14 23:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and didn't get my first kiss until I was nearly 21. There is nothing wrong with you! You just need to be patient and wait for guys to come around!
2006-11-14 22:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by discmiss1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well maybe ur not mingling with them enough , ur 2 friends that said ur hot,well there is something wrong,because if i would say that about a friend of mine that is close enough to hear..and one doesn't come to say hi or ask u for a date....well girl u got to move in and show some stuff of urs i don't mean strip..lol...just show them that ur alive and looking..babe...
2006-11-14 23:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by montana_sun_rise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually guys like girls with less expiernce
they look for that in a gf quality
maybe u should geta guys number
call them
talk
flirt a litttttttle
invite them to a movie
2006-11-14 22:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by surfwavesx3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's lot of people who dont get kissed until really late... i thought i would never get kissed. but i found my girlfriend and yeah.. you just have to find the right guy with the right attitude.. if he's really meant to be your first.. then it'll usually come naturally.. just be yourself and dont worry about your stomach.. that's just called being nervous... you'll find someone... just be you.. and your dreamboy will find you...
2006-11-14 22:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
experienced is somewhat scarier. especially when a girl sleeps alot of random guys. its kind of whore like but hey diff. people out there. me i prefer a girl i can gain experience with sexually and romantically. that wat we experience things together. i think with things like that, it shouldnt be about who has the upper hand, it should be all about the moment and that moment will come.
2006-11-14 23:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋