you view yourself, couples, woman, and monogamy forever?
Is it crossing a line that you cannot return from?
2006-11-14 14:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think all of these people are being a little too deep and analytical about it. If you're single and quite liberated, you can experiment in all sorts of ways and then return to a loving, monogamous relationship and thoroughly enjoy it. If you are in a monogamous, serious relationship with another and then experiment with threesomes, it can also be simply a fun experiment that you don't have to continue with. It all comes down to the people involved. If there is insecurity in any one of those people, there will be drama. If there is none, it can even bring a couple closer together but you must be sure that nobody is hiding feelings about it. Some people should never go there. Others can handle it without issue and it in no way is degrading to anyone involved. These people are few and far between but they exist. I know them and they are very happily married, very much in love and extremely confident in their relationship & themselves.
2006-11-14 17:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I decided to have threesome once when my wife admitted to me that she found women attractive. She knew this lady that she thought would be up for it and we invited her over. It went bad pretty fast. My wife totally freaked when the other woman thought that it was time for her and I to go at it... it was too much for my wife... two minutes later we were dressed, her pseudo friend was a friend no more, and we learned that we were very much happy in our monogamy! So it was good and bad, mostly bad. It depends on the couple, but some fantasies should just stay fantasies.
2006-11-14 22:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... your life is changed forever. Anytime you are intimate with another person, your life is changed both physically and mentally. Think about!?
OK next question... a line you cannot return from... don't understand your question. Is it like your no longer a virgin or something? Well, yeah! Your different now. You have had an experiance that is life changing. So know you have to deal with your new feelings about your self and others.
Good luck with that!
2006-11-14 22:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by BeArPaW_4709 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it definitely crosses a line, respect for your self and body, would slowly fade away, and you would be probably be more likely to go out and mess around with people, that you would not otherwise, mess with!
2006-11-14 22:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a threesome, but we did it for all the wrong reasons. It destroyed one friendship and damaged the other
2006-11-14 22:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what i heard, but i really couldn't say. But i would think that if you have a strong relationship with your partner, and everything is purely sexual, then it shouldn't be a problem!
2006-11-15 07:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I can't see anything good coming out of it for a relationship or otherwise. Of course, if your relationship is strong enough, it should be able to withstand just about anything...
2006-11-14 23:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place i wouldn't do that......
2006-11-14 22:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad bad bad!!!!
2006-11-14 22:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by thegirlfromthegrayhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋