ok i am gay and i like this guy http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AmRIXNFtdB1sffhM2ArA5Lvsy6IX?show=c9880859e992cac448223ff59263dbe3aa but hes straight and i emailed him and he said hes not interested in guys.. but i like him so how can i turn him gay and how can i make him love me
2006-11-14 14:15:17 · 19 answers · asked by rock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is straight he is straight you can't change what he is..find another guy
2006-11-14 14:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't turn someone gay. It's either they are or aren't. So just find someone else that likes you and wants to be with you. It's hard liking someone who doesn't feel the same way but the only way is to put yourself out there to keep from feeling confused, anxsious or sad about it and to genuinely find some person who likes you where you'll be much happier.
2006-11-14 14:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The short answer is - You can't, so don't try...
The longer answer:
Even if you subscribe to the idea that there are 'grades' of sexuality (eg, the Kinsey Scale - exclusively heterosexual, predominantly heterosexual with homosexual tendencies, bisexual, predominantly homosexual with heterosexual tendencies, and exclusively homosexual), you can't MAKE someone love you. If the guy is not interested in guys, then you'll be pushing **** uphill trying to convert him for little to no result. Download his photo and mastubate to it if you are so inclined, then move the hell on and spend your energies looking for a relationship where you don't want to change who that person is...
2006-11-14 15:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odd isn't it... Homosexuals say they are born that way. From the womb, they are homosexual. Yet Heterosexual men can choose to be homosexual. Isn't that strange?
On the one hand, we are to believe that homosexuals are born that way and cannot change. Yet homosexuals believe they can turn a person's sexuality to something that is abnormal to that person.
Could it be that homosexual men are actually making a choice? The line of logic from this man would have us believe that he's homosexual by choice and not by natural inclination!
Strange isn't it... This guy is not the only homosexual that believes that men can change from heterosexual to homosexual...
I find it the question thought provoking to say the least.
2006-11-14 14:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...if you were gay, you'd know it doesn't work that way...people dont' choose to be gay or straight...
A straight guy can't "turn" gay...and if you really liked him, you wouldn't want to force him to be something he is not.
Are you sure you are gay? Why don't you turn straight and avoid the persecution? Can't...can ya?
2006-11-14 14:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but ...
You (of all people) should know that you can't "turn" a straight person gay anymore than you can "turn" a gay person straight.
2006-11-14 14:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by ruby 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK look i don't know who you are but relationships is nothing to rush into. now your gay well i think that you should find someone who is gay so that way you don't have to change someone else to fit your needs that is what i call not right!!!!!
2006-11-14 14:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by phillip c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Son af a *****. You seriously gay? Can I interview how does it feel to be gay? Dude don't talk to me i'm stait and had a cool girlfriend before. Your scaring me dude, i mean .... whatever.
2006-11-14 14:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by max p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change somebody's opinion no matter what, so please don't try to force him. Like other guys and please post a much more respectful question next time, because there are preteens out there and you don't want them to become involved with this, so please don't post questions as adulterated as these, I'm just doing this to represent the young teenagers out there. I firmly tell you to not post a question like this!
Thanks so much and peace -
The Emster
2006-11-14 14:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by sPrInG LiLY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU DON'T EVEN TRY. LET IT BE. OR YOU COULD END UP BEING YOU OWN WORST ENEMY. THIS IS THE KIND OF THING A LOT OF PEOPLE OF WHY THEY DON'T LIKE HOMOSEXUALS. FIND SOMEONE WHO IS ALREADY IS GAY. PLEASE DON'T TRY CHANGING SOMEONE WHO ISN'T WHAT YOU LIKE THEM TO BE. AS MUCH AS WE STRAIGHT PEOPLE LIKE TO BUT WE CAN'T CHANGE YOU INTO A STRAIGHT MAN BECAUSE THAT WHO YOU ARE DUE TO YOUR DNA. SO PLEASE FIND SOMEONE WHO IS ALREADY GAY. THANK YOU.
2006-11-14 14:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you can't turn someone gay,
so instead of trying to catch him as your mate why not just be friends with him and enjoy his company that way.
2006-11-14 14:19:01 · answer #11 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋