Ok so wat do i do I love this guy but hes never around & when he is its only cuz he wants sumthin i love him wat do i do he calls me @ 1230 1 inthe morning and wants me 2 sneak out 2 b wit him but when i tell him no cuz i dnt like 2 get in trouble i get in enough by myself .. he wants me 2 give up skool 2 stay with him i dnt give up skool but i also dnt want 2 give him up either so really what do I DO ??? I'm so confused ...
2006-11-14 14:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by houstonsweetie07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy doesnt sound like hes being considerate of you in ANY way at all. He is using you. A guy who cares for a girl shows consideration. A guy can say anything to a girl but what do his actions tell you? Those speak louder than words. He is making everything about him and nothing about you. Is that what you really want?
2006-11-14 14:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is not to give up school. I am going through a similar problem but I know school is really important. I think if this guy really cares about you he would want you to stay in school because if it is important to you, then it should be important to him. He should not make you choose. You should sit down with him and tell him that by you going to school it will be better for you and him for the future.
2006-11-14 14:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by KAB128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that this guy likes you and for whatever reason but he shouldnt be jeopardizing your relationships with your family by making you do something that could get you in trouble. He shouldnt be telling you to skip school either. It sounds like this guy wants you to give up everything of yourself for him. He needs to respect you more and you need to set some boundaries with him on when you will see him and why you will see him.
2006-11-14 14:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this guy, he's not interested in your well being at all and is just using you.
Stick with school, get your education so you can have a nice career and get out to meet some new people. There are plenty of guys out there that won't treat you like this.
2006-11-14 14:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how that can be confusing. Love is a crazy thing. You have to trust your instincts is my advice.
Its not so great when he only calls you for just something he wants. Known from experience you cant love for the both of you. He may just be trying to take advantage of the situation.
Does he listen to you when you voice your concerns?
2006-11-14 14:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by skylersmom2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need help. Stick to your guns and stay home at 12:30 am and stay in school.
He need the help to show you some consideration. until than sit down rules. If he can not call between 7am to 10pm or during the weekends than not to call at all and so forth
2006-11-14 14:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what? He doesn't love you. When you love someone you want what's best for them. You put their needs before your own. This guy certainly isn't doing that..! It sounds like he is older than you and is only after sex. Kick him to the curb now before you are in way over your head.
2006-11-14 14:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is bad news. Have enough respect for yourself not to let this guy mess with your head and talk you into doing things that are not in your best interest. There are plenty of other guys out there.
2006-11-14 14:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this guy doesn't have the same feeling like you do to him.Why must you give up things that meant so much to you for him?Don't be foolish,you will regret it later and then,who will you blame?Yourself or him?
2006-11-14 14:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not good for you...he wants you to do things that are dishonest, and could get you into trouble. Stop taking his late-night calls...in fact, stop taking his calls at all.
He's nothing but trouble girl...I know that type...get over him before you get something from him you can't get rid of...
2006-11-14 14:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋