ok so im not exactly the most popular kid (kinda middle) and i hang out with the "nerds" so anyways, all of the good looking girls in my school are really snoby because a go 2 a pretty wealthy school so if they get in then its either cause of money or brains. so they r all snoby because there spoiled and they know they look good.
ok so heres my question: i am really good friends with this girl and im not sure but i think i kinda like her, ive never had a gf and she knows that yet shes always given attention and fealin sorry 4 my other friend who has had a gf, because the girl that he currently likes is goin out with a jerk... so anyways what should i do... im not good looking (at least i think not... not sure im not like ugly or anything) but she isnt either and my friend keeps saying there is nothin goin on between them so im not sure so... basically... what should i do...?
2006-11-14 13:59:59 · 8 answers · asked by squashburn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EDIT: also i 4got 2 say.. im really shy and i have danced with her at dance but since the 1st she seems 2 leave wen a slow song comes on
2006-11-14 14:09:39 · update #1
EDIT2: i have asked him if anythings goin on and he says no but im not so sure, hes like my best frend and i think she likes him...
2006-11-14 14:12:04 · update #2
Talk to her and be yourself - She'll enjoy that attention and so will you. For yourself in the meantime work on things that will make you feel better about yourself. For us guys, it's really not about looks that
cause girls to be attracted. They are attracted for many reasons. Go out learn guitar, lift weights, etc. so that you too can feel as strong as you should when engaging girls. Good luck
2006-11-14 14:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Scott L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm im not sure if you really like her or if you just want to think you like her because you would like a girlfriend? just a guess. if its right then there is no need to rush. im sixteen and still havnt had a boyfriend. there is no reason to ruin a friendship only because you want a girlfriend. plus, you wouldnt want to go out with someone you dont truely like. thats just mean. so i say wait it out. if you know you do like her more than just a friend, than ignore everything that i just said and go for it, ask her out. you'll never know what she'll say until you try. but if you dont think you really like her, than wait. you'll meet someone that you truely do like. and maybe if your lucky they wont go to your school. (wrinkels nose) no need to go out with a snob. there are a lot of nice girls out there.
2006-11-15 07:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by chikka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should approach her and ask her if she likes u as a friend or a gf. Its better 2 get over it dude.
2006-11-14 14:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask him. No matter how close you are, he could be lying to protect you. If you want to know, ask her. If nothings going on, go for it!
Good Luck!
2006-11-14 14:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to ask your friend that she is feeling sorry for if anything is going on between them. if there is then let them be. if nothing is going on between them then you should ask her if she likes you. theres nothing to loose! GO FOR IT!
2006-11-14 14:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by cuttiealltheway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude! ask her out ! cant get any simpler than that! sounds like she likes u if shes hangin out with u AND ur friends!
2006-11-14 14:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...ask her what she feels about u and if its sumthing gr8 den tell her what u feell about her.
2006-11-14 14:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by crazzzgal94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO RIGHT ON AND ASK HER
2006-11-14 14:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋