My life is really confusing lately. I fell in love with this guy, but it didn`t work out. I`m trying to get past him and move on. Give me some advice on this please!!
Also, I keep liking different guys, and sometimes more than one and I change my mind a lot. I seem to be getting really superficial with it; I`ll basically check out and have a crush on any guy who is hot. Even if I don`t like his personality, I`ll convince myself that I do. Is this normal? Would it be unfair to the guy if I went out with him right now? How do I get past this and finally move on? I want to find love again, but right now I`m an emotional train reck. Help!!!
2006-11-14 13:54:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
John F.-- I`m not a hooker! I didn`t say I was going out with them! Learn to read!!
2006-11-14 14:03:19 · update #1
this is perfectly normal and don't be freaked. alot of people feel this way. the fact that you keep falling for so many different guys is that your trying to find someone to replace the one you loved. you keep searching until you find that perfect guy. it's normal, don't worry. i know everyone says this, but you will get over him, in time. the only time you will fully be over him is when you find, the right guy. not just some randome guy you found on the street, but some that makes you feel the same way the one you loved before. if you keep searching then you will find your perfect guy, but don't start dating right a way, just because you want to find the perfect guy. you need to wait untill you feel ready. good luck and remember your not alone!!
2006-11-14 14:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by funky star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to slow down. you don't get over a person by liking every one that crosses your path. you need an emotional break. it's nothing wrong with flirting and having a good time. just b/c you find yourself attracted to one guy, doesn't mean you are not going to find the next one just as attractive. it's the joy of being single and having the option to date Tim today and Bob tomorrow.
2006-11-14 22:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by tweety3282001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To move on...give it Time...it's cliche' but it's true...
Re: crushes...that may be your subconcious trying to distract you from your ex...don't go out with anyone until your heart is healed...it's not fair to the guy if your heart is elsewhere (because your head likely will be too)...
Get over one relationship, completely, before thinking about starting another one...
Treat people as you would like to be treated...good luck!
2006-11-14 21:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... If you have a crush on multiple people, I think it's normal. I'm 13 but that's just what I think. Now, if you're dating someone different every week, now that's just plain mean. People aren't something that you just pick and go out with, then toss them aside like a piece of trash. But that's my opinion. Anyway, it's your life, not mine.
2006-11-14 22:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by The World Ends with You 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is called rebounding....you are taking the love you had for one guy and placing it into others who don't pan out. Try sitting and hanging loose for a while..the craziness will stop in due time. Good luck
2006-11-14 21:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normal...You are rebounding...I did it for a year LOL!!! It will pass when you find somebody you actually like more then physical apperence...Though I havent found one yet I know the difference between the two now.......
2006-11-14 21:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are obviously finding yourself attracted and that is different than a crush ..... it is not unnormal for you to find yourself searching out different types and perhaps finding yourself attracted to different types of guys .....
give yourself time ..... quit worrying about having a boyfriend and seek out guyfriends until you find someone compatiable with ..... if something further is to be there - you both will know it!
2006-11-14 21:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal to like different men. It's mood swings in a way.
If your dumping one guy for another each week, your then just a hooker.
2006-11-14 21:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by John F. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perfectly normal. You're looking to attach yourself again but that will be the rebound guy - sleep around - everyone wins
2006-11-14 21:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by frammie2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its not normal. but you feel that way, because you are forcing yourself to forget him, by using other guys as an excuse and distraction. its just a crush,
2006-11-14 21:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋