Don't want to call.?
I have been seeing this guy i for about 3 months now. I'm really starting to like him and i'm scared that if things don't work out that i'm going to be devistated. I want to start building a wall up and preparing myself for the worst. I want to stop contacting him...what should i do? Also i want him to chase me
2006-11-14 13:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing that I learned about men is to always be prepared for the worse, but to get him too chase you, you have to stop letting him know all of your thoughts and give him a bit of a challenge!
2006-11-14 13:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Building a wall between you is never a good idea. If you want to end it with him end it, but heart break is a part of life. Make yourself as happy as you can by being with him and whatever happens happens. You cant have happiness without some sadness.
2006-11-14 21:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love, you just have to let go and trust and be vulnerable. It isn't easy - but if you always put up a wall, you might miss great love - it is out there.
If you enjoy this guy, go for it, trust him until he proves untrustworthy. You might get hurt, true. But no matter how severe the pain, it will heal with time and then you will love someone again. You just have to go for it.
2006-11-14 21:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never have a lasting relationship if you build walls!!!
And most guys are way willing to chase as long as we know that it isn't wasted time.
2006-11-14 21:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Richard W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not meant to be then it won't be.Don't hide yourself from him,then if you do that then he might not chase after you and just break up with you. If you don't want to contact him then hang with friends and things to get your mind off him.
2006-11-14 21:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't assume the worst! and start enjoying the relationship!
But why do you want him to chase you? that's the kind of behavior that will end the relationship for sure. it's immature, so just don't do it.
2006-11-14 22:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are WAY over thinking this... stand back, take a deep breath and let things proceed at a natural pace.
2006-11-14 21:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only build a small wall.Not a big one.Why?Well,Then I might be wrong on given you this advice.Try not to call him as much.Let him call you sometimes.Trust me if he likes you He will call.
2006-11-14 21:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest to not play any games / tricks... nobody deserves it and it just makes realtionships too confusing.... i suggest to just live the moment and enjoy the time while your together... whatever happens happens... the worst might not happen... how would you know... don't hope for the worst .. hope for the best........
2006-11-14 21:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋