there's one thing in your life you could do over what would it be?
myself when i went to pick up my 28 year old daughter at her BFS when they were fighting she decided to stay, he shot and killed her the next day. i would have someway forced her to go with me had I only known and that's what I'd do if I had a do over
2006-11-14 13:48:17 · 11 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh my God,that's so sad , The school misplaced my daughter on a field trip for a couple of hours yesterday and I completely lost my mind. I just don't know how you can survive such pain.When they lost my baby yesterday after an hour of logical thinking and searching I started to think this is my fault ,if only I....... and I think your doing the same.I'm so sorry the out come for you was so terrible but you couldn't have known,But because of you and this moment in time, if my daughters ever in the same situation, if I can't drag her out I'll call the police so maybe you have saved her life and some other people who read this.
2006-11-14 13:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss.
I'd like to change a lot of things in my life-even tho I'm only in 8th grade, but if I had to choose one it'd be last year. I really miss last school year. I miss all of my friends that no longer go to school and right now everything is changing. Everybody is different. I wish I could live it up in 7th grade one last time. I met a lot of people and teachers who influenced me to give my up most best and to enjoy life up to it's fullest. If I could just go back one more time and start all over again I'd be more outgoing (since I was new in town and very shy) and make better choices for the time when I just went along w/ things that left me guilty or sad afterwards.
2006-11-14 22:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am truely sorry for the loss of your child. I cant even imagine going on with my life if something ever happend to one of my girl, but I believe God gives us strength to pull through anything. Howevever, you cannot place blame on yourself for not getting her out of that situation, she chose to stay for whatever reason.
If there was to be one thing in my life I could change it would be the illness of my child. I realize that you cant change fate, but if I could I would take her diabetes, and her allergies to everything in the air and let her go one day without a needle or a breathing treatment...she would be a normal kid, with a normal schedule, playing normal sports, and eating normal food. She looks at her sister who eats all the time (healthy) and wonders why she isnt the same. She is only 7 and we have only been coping with diabetes for the past 8 months. So my answer to your question, I would take her illness.
2006-11-14 22:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt blame yourself for what hapened, even though i know you do.
What happened was tragic, and any mum would want to go back and change fate to save their child, me included. But who is to know if that would have changed anything for sure?
There are so many would haves, could haves, should haves, that we will never truly know if things could have been different.
You did the best you were humanely capable of doing, and i'm sure your daughter knows that too.
Please dont beat yourself up over this, it's only punishing yourself for things that were out of your control.
Best of luck.
2006-11-14 21:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by harttattoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have not let my marriage fail . Looking back i think i could've done things different and we would still be together . Instead he left and married the first girl he met on the internet . (he found he in a chat room ) she lived in the next state and he left us for her . That's too bad cuz we still have feelings for each other to this day. We have been together since our breakup . New wife or no new wife hes in my blood .
2006-11-14 22:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my, when I read the first part of the question, I thought I would answer something like I would finish college....but after reading yours - I have no real regrets like that.
I am so sorry that you had this happen to you and wish you the best in the future. It was in no way your fault.
2006-11-14 21:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kat : What a horrible experience for you ! My heart goes out to you. To answer your question, I would say, go to University and after I graduated, spend my life helping out with the poor and homeless.
2006-11-14 21:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh sorry for your loss...I wouldn't go back and change anything...What has happened in my life has made me the person i am today...
2006-11-14 22:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wo... honostly thats not 1 of those things u should just blurt out... but gl copping =(
prolly just highschool or adholesents 4 me or
probly my friends drug addiction
2006-11-14 21:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by squashburn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably my first time. i would have waited for the right one.
2006-11-14 21:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Katya M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋