Okay well my boyfriend cheated on me and now he goes out with the girl.duh! well i tried to limit the times i talk to him,but when he does talk to me he always brings up his girlfriend and just shoves it in me face. I'm tired of him ruining my day by putting me down and pissing me off. I want to just forget about him,but its hard to do so. What am I suppose to do? Can anybody help me?
2006-11-14 13:21:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok. so. i'm 14, and i've been in that situation. just forget about him. if he's acting like a jerk, then he's not worth your time. don't make it look like your chasing this guy around. he'll think you're pathetic and just want to mess with you. forget about him. but hey, that's my opinion. oh...and. 13. remember. it's not as if he's actually changed your life in a major way or anything...right? so, yeah. i suggest you ignore him since he only talks about his girlfriend with you, and hang out with your own friends more. i guess it's safe to befriend him again when you're completely over him, but if he still acts like a jerk [even as a friend], then i suggest you just stay away.
2006-11-14 13:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by renx93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do most 13 yr old girls do about Boys is beyond me, but I will say this. If you were my daughter, I would want the best for you and I want you to enjoy your young years and if you must have sex then by all means use protection always and I mean always....never take a chance.
Protect yourslef and your value for your future and life will get so much better for you as you take responsibility for yourself because Boys sometimes just play the young scene and grant it.
2006-11-14 13:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's being a total immature dink by doing what he's doing and you won't stoop to his level.
You can always suck it up and tell him that you hope he's happy with the new girlfriend and brush him off. He's doing it just to bother you, so if you brush it off like you don't care, he'll stop.
And may I suggest, since you're only 13, that you wait at least another year before you get into the dramas of another boyfriend. ;)
2006-11-14 13:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes a bonified LOSER!! Kick him to the curb!! U could do so much better than him! He must not know how easy it is for us girls to get another. Hes a total waste of time. Instead of thinking bout him do something productive like study!! This will definitely make you miss him less and eventually you wont miss him at all!!
2006-11-14 13:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by chinesefoodruleZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to other guys. seriously even if you wouldnt go out with them it helps. this is kindove mean but whenever hes around, flirt with other guys so he'll for one get the picture and two know what it feels like. he obviously is trying to rub it in your face so why not do it to him? guys can be bitches and even if you love them you cant let them get away with it to do it to the next girl. you shouldnt be letting him be doing this to you i mean he freakin cheated on you. also, try to spend more time with your girlfriends. they'lle be there for you and there way more important than any guy. youll realize that by the time your in high school trust me i sure have. hope ive helped! ♥
2006-11-14 13:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls can live without guys. especially 13 years old. why do you care about some 13 year old kid. it doesnt even mean anything. when ur that young,.guys just go out with you cuz they think your hot or something. its stupid. u may REALLY like them. but u never know how muc they like u back. who cares. you'll get plenty other of guys in your lifetime. high school and college. u got a longgg way to go. and dont try to get back at him. you'll only regret it . obviously he has no life if hes trying ot make you jealous! who cares. guys aren't worth ittt
2006-11-14 13:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by xo_your_mom 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pretend that it doesn`t bother you or say something saracastic back to him. He`s trying to make you upset, but if you make him think that you`re not, he`ll eventually just give it up. Stop talking to him at all. He`s not worth your breath.
2006-11-14 13:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you could email me and we could talk jpasc16@eq.edu.au
or you could make him jealous
but number 1 i reckon is the best
or even better you could go out with me im 13 loyal and i would never cheat after i been cheated on
2006-11-14 13:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are 13 years old and you have boy problems?? You should be more worried about school.. Stop having sex and get to school!
2006-11-14 13:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by jeffreed_661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find another boyfriend or when he talks about his girlfriend act like it doesn't bother you.
2006-11-14 13:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋