He told me he didn't love me anymore...so why is he sending me e mails saying things like "hey remember when we had sex in....." or "I was at a bar last night and I started thinking about all those great times we had..." blah blah, remember when stuff. he knows I still love him...because I told him! So why is he forcing me to remember the past!! It's so cruel.
2006-11-14 13:20:26 · 23 answers · asked by Shelly M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your forcing yourself to remember by opening his mail. Delete it! It won't be easy. But if you what his full attention on your question here, you are going to have to do this. And when he ask why you don't response, then save what you just wrote here and pass it on to him. There may also have been something in the past that is not there now and he is trying to get that back.
Good luck.
2006-11-14 13:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a guy says he doesn't love you - he means it. Guys can be real jerks. Just stop talking to him. Especially if you still love him. Pretend like he doesn't exist. It will make him crazy. This ALWAYS works. Guys always want what they can't have. And it will prove to you two things, one that he is an idiot (sometimes you just have to step back and look at things) AND that you should have moved on long ago. In the meantime go places where you are likely to meet someone else that will truly care about you.
2006-11-14 13:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? Because he's a controlling, manipulative man-child that needs the attention. Gross. Why in the world would you still love somebody like that? You deserve better. Block him from your email. Don't answer his calls. He is cruel because he can be. He's doing this to you because you let him and he's laughing at you behind your back. Get rid of the fool - ASAP!
2006-11-14 13:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by hfantozz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought; perhaps your ex is remembering the sex & feeling like he misses the physical part of the relationship but doesn't want to reinvolve himself. He may not mean to make you feel bad, he just may be missing only one thing....
This is not intentionally malicious, but it is thoughtless & self-centered. He needs to be shown that done is done and that you are not easy prey for manipulation by him or anyone. This can be done by making it clear that you have moved on, if that is where you are with that. Please keep in mind clearly exactly why you seperated - a case of the randies on his part changes nothing.
Good Luck!
;-)
2006-11-14 13:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is doing this to u so u will not be able to move on. he wants to be the only one who is able to see other people instead of u. he is telling u all this things to confuse u and make u think that he still wants u and u wont date n e one else.. even if u love him get corage and date other people and replying to him u can even change ur email address unless u enjoy reading them.. but either than that proof to him that u do not care and that will make him feel bad for breaking up with u.. and who knows probably u will find another guy who will make u forget him...
2006-11-14 13:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes doing that because he either just wants to make you feel bad and wants to fell wanted or he just isnt ready to let you go...maybe he still likes you...sometimes guys break up with girls because one of their friends doesn't like you or called you ugly or something...guys like being wanted and liked!!! And if you dont like what hes doing tell him and ask him why hes doing it...If he cares hell stop or give you a reasonable explanation...well thats all i can tell you...hope i could help well later!!!
2006-11-14 13:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by rodeogirl71027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still friends and it bothers you to remember tell him to backoff and your done he will always try to hang on to you just in case i know my ex wife did it to me for 3 years. yeah i was just in case. i know better now and my feeling is you dont deserve to go through the same. respect yourself and try ignoring him as much as you can. this will make him more persistant for a while but he should get the hint good luck
2006-11-14 13:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by bill n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men tend not to know what they want or how they feel unless it smacks them in the face.
He's either playing mind games or he's still working out what's going on in his head.
Why not just block his email etc.?
2006-11-14 13:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to keep you as his back up. My ex was doing the same thing to me and I just had to cut off all contact. I couldn't be happier because now he isn't messing with my emotions and I can move on.
2006-11-14 13:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by Bebe1016 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
block his e-mail he's hurting and feels better knowing that u hurt 10 times more move on with your life cuz its 2 short to cry over spoiled milk
2006-11-14 13:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by DIVA WITH SOUL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋