Was i to young to lose my virgenty?

Question

IM 13 AND LAST WEEKEND MY BOYFRIEND AND I DECIDED TO F****.HE IS OLDR THAN ME SO HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING! WE USED A CONDOM. EVERY ONE AT SCHOOL WAS SHOOCKED B/C THEY ALL KNOW ME AS THE SWEET QUIET GIRL WHO NEVER SAYS A WORD.WAS I TO YOUNG?

Answer 1

It's correctly called statutory rape. And you are too young! What are you doing with a boy who knows what he is doing? He is a sexual predator!
You appear to be proud of what you have done, since you have shared this with kids at school. That, as well, shows how immature you are. You need to go to your parents or the school councelor to prevent this boy from doing this to other little girls!
You need counseling and possibly testing for any sexual disease. Intercorse is not love! If you had waited, you would have realized this. So now you have told the world you are an easy immature little girl waiting for your next sexual intercorse! That doesn't sound good does it. You have made yourself a victum. You have ruined your reputation. You have also made yourself an easy mark for any other jerk who wants a body to use. Not to mention the friends you will loose! Other parents will find out, then what will you tell your parent(s). If you can't speak to your parents about it then you shouldn't ought to be doing it.
Once you loose your reputation, you can never gain it back. All the good you do from here on will not matter. You should have asked first about having sex. Every good person around you would have told you not to. But, maybe that's why you didn't ask first! Stop seeing this boy, seek counceling, join a church youth group that can tell you why abstinence is best. Stop seeking love this way.
Oh, by the way, condoms do not always prevent pregnacy. They also do not stop disease. If you had bothered to research before as a responcible adult does, you would have known that
May God bless and guide you.

Answer 2

Well yes, considering you don't even know how to spell the word, however its too late now huh? You are too young to be sexually active, I know because I was at your age and have regretted it ever since. Take good care of yourself, I'm glad you were smart to use a condom, but you can still become pregnant or get some very real, very scary diseases even with a condom. Its not a bad thing that you're too young, there are many things you just don't understand yet, and that's ok. Take life more slowly, take care of YOU, your body, your mind. Stop telling people you've done it or, I can assure you, you'll be known only for one talent for the rest of your school years and that is living hell. You don't have to continue, just because you did it once. You can decide it was a mistake and commit yourself to waiting a few more years. It doesn't bring back your virginity physically, but it is certainly a better road to go. Good luck.

Answer 3

What the... OK. I don't want to go preaching so I'm just gonna say 4 things.

1) Why the hell are you having sex?
2) Didn't your parents teach you any better to not have sex until you were 18?
3) If he is 18 or older, he could be arrested for rape, even if you consented to it, I believe.
4) And yes, 13 is really young for sex.

Now, please, I hope you've learned from this mistake and please, for heaven's sake, even if you use a condom, don't have illegal sex. Minors having sex is illegal. Wait until you have turned 18, kids.

I'm 13, I'm not considering having sex until I'm 18. >.> Use common sense before you make a choice. -_- But the deed has been done, so, you should just be glad the condom didn't break or you'd have been in some deep trouble. I give you a piece of advice. If your boyfriend is the one who suggested having sex first and he's 18, I say you should break up. But hey, I'm not gonna tell you what you have to do. It's your choice, Miss, and I hope you make the right one.

Answer 4

13 is too young in the western world for sure and too young really every where except where people drop dead by 25 or 30
you can never get back the physical part that you lost . but the mental part the self respect and retain your innocence by simply not having sex again until your a fair bit older.
i suggest that you make it a point not to mention your mistake to people
i hope you at least found some pleasure in it but wait wait wait
and if your thinking do that again find some other ways to satisfy the urge .

Answer 5

Yeah 13 is young and hopefully nothing bad is going to happen now because if everyone knows now all the other guys are gonna want to get to you too. That's what happens when the whole school finds out about it. You already know you are too young or you wouldn't be asking strangers what they think. Just be careful who you tell about this because someone who finds out can cause problems for you.

Answer 6

The word is virginity. The answer to your question is ABSOLUTELY YES! How much older is your boyfriend? Keep in mind that you do not have to give your body to any man to prove your love. A good person will wait for you to be ready for sex and at 13, you are certainly not ready in the least. It was a bad choice but try to learn from it. I hope you wore protection.

Guido

Answer 7

yes. 13 is waaaaaaaaay too young. u should of waited till u were 18. i think ur confused and being influenced by peer pressure. i almost feel sorry 4 u that u didnt kno that. if ur asking if ur 2 young then the answer iz automatically yes. iz girls like u, that hav no respect 4 ur body, make every girl look lik easy sex machines.

Answer 8

I hate to say it but YES!! 13 is way to young. Now your not going to be known as the quiet girl your going to be thought of as easy to get or a slut.

Answer 9

Yes...and infact another thing...that was sin against God, if you and your BF aren't married.
So, i would say repent .. and ask for forgivenes from God, and ask him to wash you with the blood of Jesus so that you might be free of your sin.
In the Bible...it is written that Sexual activity without marriage..is the worst sin a man (mankind) can do because its the only sin that envolves your body.

Answer 10

Judging by the fact that you are asking the question, yes. Remember even though your no longer a virgin you can still say no. Keep this in mind and hopefully you are at peace with your decision.