I really do not know what to do. i broke up with this guy, then the other day I ran into him and he was like wow i really need to talk to you. he tells me he loves me, kisses me and then says think about and leaves. then i get a threatening e-mail from his current girlfriend, telling me not to talk to him ever again if i knew what was good for me. my ex is ok but kind of mean. but i also kind of like this other guy but im not sure if he likes me, we just kinda flirt. what should i do?
2006-11-14 13:14:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about your ex and his dangerous girlfriend! I read the other posts you put about how he told you you're too short and men only like tall women, etc... and he doesn't deserve you. How tall is he by the way? Go for the guy who you think likes you but don't do it to make you ex jealous!!! Do it for your own happiness and leave your ex alone! Tell him that you found someone else, and goodbye!
2006-11-15 13:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that, try to talk to her adn when that fails try to not start any drama...if she threatens you just dont threaten back...if she touches you thats a different story and you have to handle that in your own way...just avoid more drama and try to leave her alone...to deal with him saying he loves you just figure out how you feel about him, try to make sure before you do anything. If you decide you like him and want to get back with him wait a while until the situation is over and then you have to decide the rest for yourself
2006-11-14 21:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by ashley n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For your own safety, get away from that situation as fast as you can!! Why would you want to have anything to do with someone who is mean anyway?? You broke up with him and he is with someone else, you should respect that. If it were the other way around, wouldn't you be as upset as the current gf?
2006-11-14 21:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fun: Your ex is a sadist ! He breaks up with you, gets a g/f, goes to you pretending he loves you, his g/f finds out and YOU are on the receiving end of threats ! How else would she know that he was trying to make it with you unless HE told her? Stay away from your ex ... tell him to **** off and stay away from you before someone is hurt. Your ex likes to rub "salt" into the wounds of your break up !!! I know you mean well and are probably needing some hugs in your life right now. Please stay away from this abuser !!!
2006-11-14 21:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay whats up girl just tell him u cant be but maybe you can be
friends and just hang close to the guy u kinda like
because he praboly is better and its nice to get a new start
and send that girl an e-mail and say u now you dont even now
me so leave me alone.And its not worth staying with a guy who is mean
even if its some.
2006-11-14 21:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Brown_girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally would go out with him just to piss his gf off! I would recommend that you forget about him and try to move on.
"Once you`ve used a guy once, he`s done. Get over it." -lol, that was on a TV show. Laguna Beach, I think.
Seriously though, you guys broke up for a reason. Try giving the other guy a chance.
2006-11-14 21:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont get involved with your ex because you are only bringing drama to their relationship and there is obviously someone else right there for you.. just think if like you were with someone you wouldn't want his ex being involved with ur relationship.. in the end you'd be the one hurt.
2006-11-14 21:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by yowkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the e-mail over to the internet provider and/or the police and probably let her know you did it. Also, the man should handle this.
2006-11-14 21:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait it out with your ex because he seems to be in a relationship, go for the other guy just talk to him and go out with him for a little bit
2006-11-14 21:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by sia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep going out w/ him tell him whats going on ask him 2 talk 2 her. and if something is gonna happen call the cops a threat is a threat! lol.
2006-11-14 21:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋